Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?

I know a guy who has been divorced for about a year. Bad divorce--she took him for almost everything. His ex is from an extremely wealthy family!!!!!So he could not beat her attorney wise. Here is the question: He used to call me several times a week--never complained about anything personal--just talked about things we had in common for hours on end. Then he would stop calling for several weeks--I went crazy and then would call him--He would call me often again after I called him. He never complains, but I know his life situation is pretty bad right now--making a career change, wanting custody of his son, short on money--but like I said when he talks to me he never complains about these things. He jokes, has cute pet names for me, and says he likes talking to me. He seems to light up and blushes when we accidently meet. When he talks to mutual friends and they ask him how things are going in his career change he reseponds with %26quot;we%26quot; meaning he and I(doing the same).Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?It sounds like he is suffering from strong feelings of inadaquacy. This ex wife has beat the self confidence out of him. He is not sure that you really want him. That is why he consistantly gives up then starts back up after you call. He can't see beyond where he is. He doesn't complain because he is, first of all, not a whiner. Second of all, he feels as if he has little enough to entice you so complaining would only make you feel less interested in continuing the relationship.



I believe very strongly in situations of this gravity, writing him a short letter is the best thing you can do. Something he can look at when he starts feeling alone in this great big world.



I'm not talking about a %26quot;how are you today%26quot; letter. He needs a letter about you. He knows how he feels. He needs desperately to know how you feel. To know that you understand. To know that you tingle inside when the phone rings, thinking it might be him. That you want to wrap yourself around his voice when he speaks and ward off any thing that could challenge him until he is able to regain the strength to do it himself.



We men, in general, feel it is our responsibility to always be strong. To be the %26quot;protector of the weaker sex%26quot; Well, it is time to turn that around because tonight, the man is the weaker sex. And as for you, well, you will be providing the strength. It's only fair. After all, you do get butterflies thinking about him, don't you? And, I'm sure you have wanted to hold him in your arms until his pain, which he can almost hide from you, went away.



It will take a lot for you to be the hero here. If it didn't scare you, there would be no need for you to be brave. You are the only person in the world that can pull him out of this. In his mind, anyway. Don't let him down... don't let yourself down.Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?wow i would move on just because he is not consistant. when you get your life on track let me know whats going on.Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?hey it sound like he at least likes you some so turn it up and see what happens but after what he has been thru it may run him off you cant tell with out talking with him in person but take a chance GOOD LUCKSerious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?shoot,who knows...it's been quite some time now...quit with the footsies and go for the kill.Be straight up with this guy.He's probably waiting on you to present the next step.If you are hot-he may be a bit intimidated(seeming coy).Honestly,you should jump on it B4 someone else does!Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?First thing you need to understand losing someone out of your life either by breakup or death generates the same form of grief.And this grieving period may last 1 to 2 years,also considering how badly he got burned may add a cetain degree of mistrust that could extend any recovery time,so you need to ask yourself if you have that much time to giveSerious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?Be careful, not knowing more, it sounds like this guy needs a friend after all he's been through and that 'friend' may be you (it certainly seems to be from his point of view). If he is reading more into your relationship than he should, you should be very cautious about giving him any indications that lead in that direction. If this is something you would like to develop, be careful there too, he is very vulnerable right now and what he is seeking in you right now, may not go as deep as you both may think. In short, don't build a relationship while either one of you is a time of crisis or is simply 'needy'.Serious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?that the plunge go for it ask him out and see how it goesSerious Question!!! Guys Only!! What's up with this guy? Any hope for me?sounds like he is afraid of getting hurt again and thinks all women are alike in my opion watch out till he see.s the light that every woman isnt like his . ex. ?

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