dont stress!! hold your head high and FIGHT HIM!!
TAKE YOUR KIDS TO THERAPY!!! AND NOW! GO to the YWCA they have FREE help for kids AND can recommend you to someone..THIS you can USE in court against him
also CALL the school and talk to the school therapist and tell him/her what he is doing to the kids and get them involved with helping your kids...YOU can use that as well!!
THEN see if you cant terminate his RIGHTS OR get supervised visits UNTIL he receive helpMy ex husband filed for an emergency change of custody?make sure you have a good lawyer and keep working with him and the law to keep this man away from your kids!
People that make threats like that go through with them:
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/03/3My ex husband filed for an emergency change of custody?I have gone through this as well, and am sure that it will go on in some form or another for the rest of our lives. Go back and read the Chams' response. That's what I did in the past and its the better way.
The kids have the ability down the road to choose who they want to be with....stay on the high road and you can be certain it will be you.My ex husband filed for an emergency change of custody?MOVE... It's worth it.My ex husband filed for an emergency change of custody?Oh boy - sounds like you are in a bad situation with your ex.
He obviously didn't get over you.
I take it you two were together for a while, since you have multiple children with him.
Is it possible, that you started dating soon after you and your ex separated and just got engaged to the first person that treated you well (like a rebound).
Rebounds are awful on the kids as well.
In terms of advice, just ignore your ex., I mean the best thing you could have done was wait a couple of years after your separation before dating again but you didn't.My ex husband filed for an emergency change of custody?Please look up the nearest women's shelter or center for domestic abuse and tell them your situation. They will be able to help you with legal and custodial advice and help you keep yourself and your children safe. Even if your husband would never really hurt you or your children, the fact that he's using threats should be taken seriously.
If you can't find anything listed in your area, try calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at
1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Good luck--I hope things get better. Take care.