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Changing Custody after u file?
I recently filed for a divorve without a lawyer. but now i am stuck, you see he abused me once and i left, i did not call the police, stupid me, i still wanted to be fair 50/50 custody of our 2 year old, he does not think he did any thing wrong and is going to protest for full custody in spite me, I am just throwing around the idea of changing and fighting for full because he is also throwing parties in the house while my son is there. 1. how would i change the paperwork that is filled to requesting full custody%26gt; 2. how would or should i go about getting the police involved when i know he is throwing parties and drinking around my son during his time?(could they do anything)?Changing Custody after u file?Sounds like u may need to call a lawyer, I went threw the same thing, but I got a lawyer. Sometimes if u call one they will talk with u for free and let u know what all u need to do. As for throwing the parties yes when u know he is throwing one and ur child is there, Call the police at that time, let them know ur 2 year old is over there and U dont think its safe. They can do something about it and it will look bad in court on his case. If he does anymore abuse then u need to call the police no holding back. Good luck to you!
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How soon can a custody battle be over?
My 15 year old is moving here to wyoming from Georgia next week. I have been paying child support for her and have no custody over her. Her mother is letting her move in with me because she has been wanting too for a while now. If i go to do a custody change and a modify to child support, how long will it take. The case will be a Georgia case. I doubt her mom will fight cause she is letting her move in with me.How soon can a custody battle be over?About 2 weeks if uncontested...but it may require you to attend a hearing in GeorgiaHow soon can a custody battle be over?With courts being back logged you could wait up to 2 months... I work closely here with a different court process but for the most part all courts even traffic are back logged. So I would figure at least a month-two months to get in a non-contested trial. :)
How much does a lawyer cost for a custody hearing?
My dad and I want to file for a custody change, so I can live with him more often. How much does this cost?How much does a lawyer cost for a custody hearing?Lawyers are pretty expensive. And a custody proceeding is pretty tough to do without one.
I'd say at least a few thousand dollars, if your mom wants to fight it.How much does a lawyer cost for a custody hearing?If your mother is agreeable, all you need is a mediator.
The mediator will be a lawyer or paralegal, with specialized training. Each of you MUST pay half the fees. The fees could run from $200 to $1000, depending on the going rates in your area, and time spent on the document. Court fees could run $50 to $150.
If she's less than agreeable, this will help.
I檝e been a Father檚 Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to do it.
Part of the problem with getting your rights knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a tablet and pen to take notes. It檚 best to use a Court Watch Form designed for this purpose. I have one in the manual at Dads House.
If the judge is not doing his job, using the info from this form, you can, appeal, and/or get the judge sanctioned and removed from the case. You file a complaint with the State Supreme Court at your state capital.
Start keeping a daily journal of all your activities. The most common way to prevent a father from getting his rights through the courts is a false allegation, usually sexual. Over 60% of divorcing father are accused of child sexual abuse, of which only 4% are found to have any relevance, but there are no penalties for doing so. A daily journal is your number one piece of evidence in court and you can even refer to it while on the stand.
Gather evidence. Check the site below to see if it is illegal to record conversations without the other person knowing. If your state does not have a law either way, than it defaults to the federal ruling which says one person in a conversation must know they are being recorded. You檙e that one person. In Missouri it is specifically legal, in Kansas there is no mention either way. If you live in two different states, and one has a law against it, than it applies when the call originates from within that state,
http://www.rcfp.org/taping/
Now, you can't just record, you also have to transcribe it into the daily journal.
If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's an educational manual in the file section that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.
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I'd say at least a few thousand dollars, if your mom wants to fight it.How much does a lawyer cost for a custody hearing?If your mother is agreeable, all you need is a mediator.
The mediator will be a lawyer or paralegal, with specialized training. Each of you MUST pay half the fees. The fees could run from $200 to $1000, depending on the going rates in your area, and time spent on the document. Court fees could run $50 to $150.
If she's less than agreeable, this will help.
I檝e been a Father檚 Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to do it.
Part of the problem with getting your rights knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a tablet and pen to take notes. It檚 best to use a Court Watch Form designed for this purpose. I have one in the manual at Dads House.
If the judge is not doing his job, using the info from this form, you can, appeal, and/or get the judge sanctioned and removed from the case. You file a complaint with the State Supreme Court at your state capital.
Start keeping a daily journal of all your activities. The most common way to prevent a father from getting his rights through the courts is a false allegation, usually sexual. Over 60% of divorcing father are accused of child sexual abuse, of which only 4% are found to have any relevance, but there are no penalties for doing so. A daily journal is your number one piece of evidence in court and you can even refer to it while on the stand.
Gather evidence. Check the site below to see if it is illegal to record conversations without the other person knowing. If your state does not have a law either way, than it defaults to the federal ruling which says one person in a conversation must know they are being recorded. You檙e that one person. In Missouri it is specifically legal, in Kansas there is no mention either way. If you live in two different states, and one has a law against it, than it applies when the call originates from within that state,
http://www.rcfp.org/taping/
Now, you can't just record, you also have to transcribe it into the daily journal.
If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's an educational manual in the file section that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Dad
http://tinyurl.com/GiveKidsAChoice
http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/
http://www.parentalalienation.org/
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseac
How long does it take to get a custody order modified?
Both of us are in agreement with the custody change, will we have to go to court?How long does it take to get a custody order modified?Yes, the custody order must be modified by the judge. You may be able to have your attorney handle this for you with the court since you're both in agreement.
How do you go about changing custody for a minor who wants to live with another relative?
My neice is 12 and will be 13 in a few months. She is currently lving with her grandma. She she doens't get along with her grandma and wants to move another relatives house. She's nearly 13 and has said she wants to move out asap. What kind of paperwork do I need to get this started? She was adobted my her grandma but because of personality conflicts (grandma suffers from severe depression) the child wants to move in with her uncle(me)I've never done this before and wanted to know where to get started. I'm in California. Any info about custody would be appreciated.How do you go about changing custody for a minor who wants to live with another relative?I would seriously like to know what your wife says about accepting a 12 year old to move in with you!
Another thing if you are a single man, The Warning Bells Are Ringing! I'm serious, is there any other reason that you want a 12 almost 13 year old girl to move in with you?How do you go about changing custody for a minor who wants to live with another relative?I would start in the opposite direction. This is a very difficult age for most children, especially young girls. Ask Grandma if your niece can come visit you for a few weeks or the Summer. See how things go and take it from there.
Grandma will have to relinquish her custodial rights or you will have to prove she is incapable of handling them. Either way, working this out amicably together (you, Grandma and your niece) is in the best interest of long-term relationships.
Another thing if you are a single man, The Warning Bells Are Ringing! I'm serious, is there any other reason that you want a 12 almost 13 year old girl to move in with you?How do you go about changing custody for a minor who wants to live with another relative?I would start in the opposite direction. This is a very difficult age for most children, especially young girls. Ask Grandma if your niece can come visit you for a few weeks or the Summer. See how things go and take it from there.
Grandma will have to relinquish her custodial rights or you will have to prove she is incapable of handling them. Either way, working this out amicably together (you, Grandma and your niece) is in the best interest of long-term relationships.
How do I change a custody agreement?
I gave my sons dad shared custody because we still get along and he is a good dad. He has a new job and it isn't working out the way I had expected. I want to change the agreement we have but we did the divorce not a lawyer and I don't want to have to go that far. Is there a way I can have our case re opened and a judge decide what we getHow do I change a custody agreement?A judge %26quot;blessed%26quot; your divorce including the custody agreement. You will have to have a judge bless the change. If your ex husband agrees then have the paper work filled out and signed by by both and submit to the court. No problem. Otherwise you will need an attorney and give solid evidence that a change is in the best interest of the children. (not you) In doing so you will most likely substantially emotionally damage your ex husband and ruin him from being a good dad. If you are that heartless then go for it and I hope you pay greatly for it somehow, someway, sometime in the future. You will deserve it.rHow do I change a custody agreement?just stop! let him be a dad. divorce is hard on all sides. like you just said he is a good dad. let him be. just talk to him about the job issues, if money is a problem he will let you know. the two of you are divorced and you no longer have rule over him, so do not try and control his life as a dad. i mean it! you do not have the right! the sooner you realize that the easier both of your lives will be.How do I change a custody agreement?You can ask your husband to change it. Otherwise, too bad so sad.
Besides, you said that he was a good dad, why do you want to deprive your child of that? Quit being so selfish.How do I change a custody agreement?u shouldnt of had kids if u were gona get a divorce
make sure ur with some1 u kno u'll stay with 4EVER
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Besides, you said that he was a good dad, why do you want to deprive your child of that? Quit being so selfish.How do I change a custody agreement?u shouldnt of had kids if u were gona get a divorce
make sure ur with some1 u kno u'll stay with 4EVER
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How old do you have to be to change parental custody?
My parents have been divorced since I was 2. My mom doesn't get along with my dad, and she doesn't allow me to go see him on his weekends anymore. I have always wanted to go and live with him, so how can I get custody changed without having my mothers consent?How old do you have to be to change parental custody?Usually 12 yrs old in most states. Your father has to petition the court or if there is an order stating you go there on this day etc.,. and your mother will not allow you to do that then your father has to file contempt hearing. You then will have to go to court and state your wishes in front of the judge.
Good Luck... the might be a reason your Mom is so mad.How old do you have to be to change parental custody?It depends on the state you are in, laws vary state to state on this.How old do you have to be to change parental custody?The court would decide whether to allow a change of custody. Your father would have to ask for a change of custody. They would take your desire into consideration but ultimately it would be out of your hands.
Good Luck... the might be a reason your Mom is so mad.How old do you have to be to change parental custody?It depends on the state you are in, laws vary state to state on this.How old do you have to be to change parental custody?The court would decide whether to allow a change of custody. Your father would have to ask for a change of custody. They would take your desire into consideration but ultimately it would be out of your hands.
Forms for a change of custody and child support. how can it get done?
We are switching to a 50/50 agreement with the mother of my stepson. we came to this agreement ourselfs with all of our consent for the benifit of the child. but we'll still be paying her every month for child support even though we'll have him for an equal amount of time. What form do I need to get and how do we file it to change it?Forms for a change of custody and child support. how can it get done?I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED ..CRAWL INTO HER SECRET SOCIETY WITH ME***Forms for a change of custody and child support. how can it get done?Most states will require your husband to pay some sort of child support, especially if he makes more money even he'll be living with his father for 50% of the time. Don't count on that being dismissed.
Your husband needs to go to the local county courthouse where he'll be given the paperwork to fill out and file for an amendment of the current parenting plan - the mother will then be served and can sign it. Child support will be determined by the judge.
He may be able to get these forms online, but without knowing your county and state, no one can help with that.They will still need to be properly drawn up by the county courthouse or a lawyer and formally signed.
Your husband needs to go to the local county courthouse where he'll be given the paperwork to fill out and file for an amendment of the current parenting plan - the mother will then be served and can sign it. Child support will be determined by the judge.
He may be able to get these forms online, but without knowing your county and state, no one can help with that.They will still need to be properly drawn up by the county courthouse or a lawyer and formally signed.
Military overseas assignment & parental custody?
I am in the military and received orders to Japan. My stepson wants to go to Dallas instead and stay with his dad. His dad has paid child support up until now; My question is - when we go over there, how will it change custody and supporting the child?Military overseas assignment %26amp; parental custody?that is up to you,the courts and the other parent.Military overseas assignment %26amp; parental custody?well do you have accompanied orders ? This will all only change through the court system. I am assuming his dad will take custody over but this is something again you will need to go to court for. This has nothing to do with the military except you need to have him taken off your orders. And he needs to be really sure thats what he wants. He can't change his mind last minute and go since your family will have to go through health checks and such.Military overseas assignment %26amp; parental custody?Then you must change the custody agreement. If you can agree on it, see if you can do it through a lawyer, if not it will need to go to court. The military will not help you in any way settle this but JAG can refer you to a lawyer that can help you.
Custody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?
does anyone know how long you have to wait to seek a change in custody for your children? ive read that you have to wait 2 years, and ive read 2 weeks. my kids grandmother was awarded custody and im not sure how long i have to wait to try an appeal. thanks for the help.Custody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?In order for someone other than the parents to gain custody - there must be something wrong with the parents. Talk to an attorney or court mediation if they have that in your county. Good luck.Custody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?You are supposed to APPEAL within a certain timeframe after the order of the court was issued.Custody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?This answer completely depends on just exactly why you lost custady and why you want it back now. As far as how long well I lost my son and 4 days later I had him back. If you willing gave up custody you may never get it back. If you had a problem which forced you give up custady then all you have to do is prove that you no longer have that problem which is what I did in just 4 days. Only because my son is truely the most important thing in my life which I proved in court 27 times and he has been with me full time now for the last 8 years. Good luck to you and your childCustody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?Ask an attorney...it varies from place to place!Custody changes how long do i have to wait to seek a change?You have to show the courts that you have your act together with a place to live, money coming in and a car. You will have to show that you have done this for at least a year. Courts don't like to move kids quickly so do everything in your power to make things right. Be prepared to have people coming into you home to investigate and show all of your time and money.
How can you petition for a change of child custody in Minnesota?
i am currently %26quot;living%26quot; with my mom %26amp; step-dad but am moving into my dads house but i want to cut all connections with my mom and the biggest one between the two of us is her custody over me. I want to file a petition of changing child custody....how do you do so?How can you petition for a change of child custody in Minnesota?You don't. Your father does. If he doesn't know how, he should consult a lawyer to help with the specifics in his area.How can you petition for a change of child custody in Minnesota?If you are under the age of 18, and are not an emancipated minor you have NO control over custody. Your father would have to file for a custody change in the place where you are currently living with your Mom. It only costs about $100 to file what is called a custody modification, but if you are over 13 most Judges will listen to you with regard to who you want to live with. And if your parents both agree then it will be done.
You can tell your dad that for every day the Mom has custody of you on paper that is one more day he is obligated to pay her child support. If your dad has custody your mom might actually have to pay HIM child support.shark bed set advice how
You can tell your dad that for every day the Mom has custody of you on paper that is one more day he is obligated to pay her child support. If your dad has custody your mom might actually have to pay HIM child support.
How can you change your custody from one parent to the other?
when your parents have been divorced for around 11 years and you wish to switch custody?How can you change your custody from one parent to the other?First off, the non-custodial parent has to WANT custody. Assuming that is the case...
1) The custodial parent can voluntarily relinquish custody. (Ask the parent to give custody to the other one)
2) The non-custodial parent can petition the court for custody and a judge can award it. With a 13 year old child, the judge will take the child's opinion into consideration as well.
Note: The other parent doesn't have to have custody for you to live with him/her. It's not at all unusual for a teen to live with a non-custodial parent. Custody is just a legal status used to mediate disputes. If your can convince your parents to allow a living arrangement you prefer without filing court papers, it will be easier for everyone.How can you change your custody from one parent to the other?Depends on the age of the child and what state you're inHow can you change your custody from one parent to the other?You would have to make sure they wanted you to live with them and have a good job if they can not take care of you then the jugde will not let you move with them even if you wanted to .
1) The custodial parent can voluntarily relinquish custody. (Ask the parent to give custody to the other one)
2) The non-custodial parent can petition the court for custody and a judge can award it. With a 13 year old child, the judge will take the child's opinion into consideration as well.
Note: The other parent doesn't have to have custody for you to live with him/her. It's not at all unusual for a teen to live with a non-custodial parent. Custody is just a legal status used to mediate disputes. If your can convince your parents to allow a living arrangement you prefer without filing court papers, it will be easier for everyone.How can you change your custody from one parent to the other?Depends on the age of the child and what state you're inHow can you change your custody from one parent to the other?You would have to make sure they wanted you to live with them and have a good job if they can not take care of you then the jugde will not let you move with them even if you wanted to .
How to Change Child Custody without Courts?
My girlfriend's sister wants to sign over custody of her kids to my girlfriends parents without involving the courts. How can she go about doing this?How to Change Child Custody without Courts?social agreement...How to Change Child Custody without Courts?You need to involve a lawyer.Otherwise, it can't happen legally.All she will need to do is give Grandparents temporary guardianship.How to Change Child Custody without Courts?It's not possible. But it's not a big affair anyway.
How to go about getting a custody change?
My parents divorced when I was 12 and I live with my dad, I was unable to live with my mom because she was deemed an unfit parent for a variety of reasons. I just turned 17 and my mom has cleaned herself up, is remarried, and has a job and place to live. Is it possible to get a custody change to my mother without my dad's consent. If so, where should I start?How to go about getting a custody change?First off, you need to contact the attending lawyer who filed your parents divorce, do a bit of reserch most states in custody battles a 13 year old can decide which parent to live with but thats most states. At 18, teenagers are deemed financialy responsible for themsleves if not living at home. Google custody rights for teenagers in your state or you can contact your local government center family services and ask them they should help you out.How to go about getting a custody change?until you are 18, you have to have the custodial parent's consent to live with...anyone other than him.How to go about getting a custody change?You would have to go to court and get it changed by a judge. You will be 18 by the time that happens, so just stay with your Dad til then, you will be an adult and you can live where you wish!How to go about getting a custody change?You should be old enough to tell the courts where you want to live. Talk to your dad and tell him how you feel because if you just up and leave then your considered a run away! Make sure its what you want and tell your parents! Good LuckHow to go about getting a custody change?This seems a little to private to the public. You should ask a friend or something this is to private. Sorry but I don't think you should ask about something private to the whole intier world.
Good Luck- Some other person can help not me because it is to private.How to go about getting a custody change?mom lets you do what you want, huh?
It is not up to the child to chose their placement. Kids don't always make the best choices for their futures. If your mom is even discussing your moving n with her against your dad's approval she is not the best parent. You've only got a year, stick it out, finish school, make choices for yourself when you are 18
Good Luck- Some other person can help not me because it is to private.How to go about getting a custody change?mom lets you do what you want, huh?
It is not up to the child to chose their placement. Kids don't always make the best choices for their futures. If your mom is even discussing your moving n with her against your dad's approval she is not the best parent. You've only got a year, stick it out, finish school, make choices for yourself when you are 18
When parents have joint custody of kids?
and one parent decides to go back to court for sole custody, how often does court change custody? There is no accusations of any wrong doing, neglect, abuse, or anything done wrong. One parent just WANTS sole custody. I have heard that courts do not like to change from joint to sole (especially for no reason). If it happens, what are the usual reasons?When parents have joint custody of kids?If you have been splitting custody for a while, and the kid is not having behavior problems and doing well in school, the judge will usually not mess with custody. If it ain't broke, why fix it.
Children deserve both parents. It makes me sick when parents use the courts, and their children, to play out little power trips. And no matter who %26quot;wins%26quot; in court, the kids ALWAYS lose. Always.When parents have joint custody of kids?They are going to have to prove that the other parent is unfit. And if worse comes to worse, the children could go and express their desires to the judge (depending on the age)When parents have joint custody of kids?Usually the courts will not change custody unless there is a reason(proven) that the other parent is an unfit parent, and that is very hard to prove!When parents have joint custody of kids?As long as both parents are fit, and the child or children is doing well in school/no behavior or health problems, then the court will not change anyting.
Occasionally, there will be a circumstance when something comes up and both parents agree to having one take sole custody (such as a military parent being called into active duty, or a major health problem for one of the parents or the child), but both parents MUST be agreeable. And it helps if the child(ren) are ok with things too.
Keep in mind, the courts must do what is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. Not the best interest of the parents, not in the best interest of the school/babysitter/hockey team/Little Leage coach/anyone else. It's what's best for the child.
Children deserve both parents. It makes me sick when parents use the courts, and their children, to play out little power trips. And no matter who %26quot;wins%26quot; in court, the kids ALWAYS lose. Always.When parents have joint custody of kids?They are going to have to prove that the other parent is unfit. And if worse comes to worse, the children could go and express their desires to the judge (depending on the age)When parents have joint custody of kids?Usually the courts will not change custody unless there is a reason(proven) that the other parent is an unfit parent, and that is very hard to prove!When parents have joint custody of kids?As long as both parents are fit, and the child or children is doing well in school/no behavior or health problems, then the court will not change anyting.
Occasionally, there will be a circumstance when something comes up and both parents agree to having one take sole custody (such as a military parent being called into active duty, or a major health problem for one of the parents or the child), but both parents MUST be agreeable. And it helps if the child(ren) are ok with things too.
Keep in mind, the courts must do what is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. Not the best interest of the parents, not in the best interest of the school/babysitter/hockey team/Little Leage coach/anyone else. It's what's best for the child.
How many months do i have to live in texas in order to establish residency for child custody change of venue?
i live in Louisiana and am moving to texas. how long do i have to be in texas before texas courts have jurisdiction?How many months do i have to live in texas in order to establish residency for child custody change of venue?you have to live in texas for a minimum of 6 mths to establish residency. Use to live in texas myself so thats the answer 6 mthsHow many months do i have to live in texas in order to establish residency for child custody change of venue?At least a year I would imagine. How many months do i have to live in texas in order to establish residency for child custody change of venue? you could ask the courts where you are going to live and see what they tell youmyspace Duvet cover
Can a 16 yr old and 14 yr old change custody without going to court?
My two sons went to live with their dad in Texas 4 years ago and they want to come back home to Utah. We don't have money to pay for a lawyer. Is there a way they can just send a letter to the judge or come home without reprimand. Their dad is threatening to throw them in jail if they leave. How can they change homes?Can a 16 yr old and 14 yr old change custody without going to court?Have them go to the police and tell them that thier father is threatening them and they want to go to live with you, automaticly they shouls be sent to you. If not go to the police yourself.Can a 16 yr old and 14 yr old change custody without going to court?I don't really know your situation. Why was their father given custody in the first place? I think you need a lawyer and a court decision since they are minors. Call your local Family Services Agency for help.Can a 16 yr old and 14 yr old change custody without going to court?Your ex can't send his sons to jail if they leave. It just won't happen. And a judge will listen to a child of their age about what they want and why they want it, as long as everything is legitimate.
As for not having money for a lawyer, is there not legal aid where you are? Because if there is and you're entitled (you need to find out first), here's what you can do:
Bring your sons to your home for a visit, and don't send them back. Having made an appointment, petition the court for custody of your sons on your turf.
Good luck...
As for not having money for a lawyer, is there not legal aid where you are? Because if there is and you're entitled (you need to find out first), here's what you can do:
Bring your sons to your home for a visit, and don't send them back. Having made an appointment, petition the court for custody of your sons on your turf.
Good luck...
How hard is it for a 15 year old to change custody from one parent to the other?
My friend is supposed to be moving about an hour away from where he currently lives and hes not happy about it. Hes tried to talk to his mom about it quite a few different times. He hasnt lived with his mom since he was about seven but now all of a sudden she wants to play mom and hes not up for it. He wants to get a lawyer and try to have his dad get custody back so he can live with his grandparents. He says his whole life is in here and he only has three more years left of school anyways. How hard would it be for his dad to get custody again?
None of us really know how the court systems work and thats why I'm asking... thanks.How hard is it for a 15 year old to change custody from one parent to the other?Who has had custody of the boys since he was seven? How did they loose custody?
Anything is possible, the courts do allow children that are 14 %26amp; over to have a say depending on the situation and the envirement he will be living in....
It wouldn't hurt to try!
None of us really know how the court systems work and thats why I'm asking... thanks.How hard is it for a 15 year old to change custody from one parent to the other?Who has had custody of the boys since he was seven? How did they loose custody?
Anything is possible, the courts do allow children that are 14 %26amp; over to have a say depending on the situation and the envirement he will be living in....
It wouldn't hurt to try!
How does someone go about changing custody of their children?
A friend of mine has two sons that are currently in the custody of his ex-wife. The boys have professed a wish to live with their father, my friend, but neither one of us is sure how to change custody from mother to father. What avenues need to be taken, how much legal and court involvement is there, and how do we get the child support switched over?How does someone go about changing custody of their children?Unless she is willing to sign over the kids and take on the child support your friend will need to start calling lawyers and asking these questions.
It will be pricey, and there will be lots of court involvement if she decides to fight it, which she will if she is any kind of a mother.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?family law attorney.
can do it all.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?Wow, sounds like a crappy mom... forcing the kids to stay with her even if they express a wish to live with their dad.
Assuming she is aware of this wish.
Best thing to do would be to talk to her about it, if she is unrelenting, lawyers will have to be called.
Best of luck in getting this resolved.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?depending on if the mother will agree to the boys going to their father is going to be important.
your friend needs to get an attorney that specializes in family matters and custody issuesHow does someone go about changing custody of their children?Well, you start by filing a Petition to Modify Child Support and Custody at their local family court. It is likely that the mom will object to this and file her opposition.
Also, how old are the kids? I don't know what jurisdiction you are in, but where I live the minor is allowed to have a say in custody proceedings when they are 14. Check your local ordinances.
Depending on how adamant the mother and father are about changing/not changing the custody, there can either be a lot or a little court involvement. If she puts up a pretty big fight, he may need to get a lawyer.
Hope that helps!How does someone go about changing custody of their children?Bottom line, a family court judge is not going to change the custody of children unless there is a serious issue that warrants it - just because they want to, isn't a valid reason in the court's eyes - and it doesn't matter what their ages are (unless you are in the state of Georgia)
Unless the father can prove a substantial change in circumstance at the mothers home that affects the children in a very adverse manner - he shouldn't even waste his time or encourage the children in any way that things can or will change.
It will be pricey, and there will be lots of court involvement if she decides to fight it, which she will if she is any kind of a mother.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?family law attorney.
can do it all.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?Wow, sounds like a crappy mom... forcing the kids to stay with her even if they express a wish to live with their dad.
Assuming she is aware of this wish.
Best thing to do would be to talk to her about it, if she is unrelenting, lawyers will have to be called.
Best of luck in getting this resolved.How does someone go about changing custody of their children?depending on if the mother will agree to the boys going to their father is going to be important.
your friend needs to get an attorney that specializes in family matters and custody issuesHow does someone go about changing custody of their children?Well, you start by filing a Petition to Modify Child Support and Custody at their local family court. It is likely that the mom will object to this and file her opposition.
Also, how old are the kids? I don't know what jurisdiction you are in, but where I live the minor is allowed to have a say in custody proceedings when they are 14. Check your local ordinances.
Depending on how adamant the mother and father are about changing/not changing the custody, there can either be a lot or a little court involvement. If she puts up a pretty big fight, he may need to get a lawyer.
Hope that helps!How does someone go about changing custody of their children?Bottom line, a family court judge is not going to change the custody of children unless there is a serious issue that warrants it - just because they want to, isn't a valid reason in the court's eyes - and it doesn't matter what their ages are (unless you are in the state of Georgia)
Unless the father can prove a substantial change in circumstance at the mothers home that affects the children in a very adverse manner - he shouldn't even waste his time or encourage the children in any way that things can or will change.
How do my sister and i change custody of my nephew?
my sister and i were thinking about bringing my oldest nephew [9] to live with me for a while and attend school, but in order for me to be able to put him in school, i need custody... how would we get started and what would we do in order to give me at least temporary custody??How do my sister and i change custody of my nephew?ok what you must do is ask the Person who has custody of him if thy are willing to turn over custody to you in order for you to get custody you must be able to prove your able to give him a safe place to live and food so on and so on if the other person not willing to give you custody then you must prove that you can do more for him and prove that there unfit to do the job and this must be done thro the court you might need a lawerHow do my sister and i change custody of my nephew?You have to take whomever has custody of him to court for custody of the child. IF he is in the custody of a parent you would have to prove in court that this parent is unfit. If you can't do that then you don't get custody. And by the way, here in the states you HAVE to have paperwork for legal guardianship as well and you can not enroll a child in school without Legal guardianship.How do my sister and i change custody of my nephew?I live in Canada(not sure where u r).Here all you have to do to enroll in another school is have an address that shows u reside in the school-zone.If you talk to the board of education and explain then sometimes they make exceptions to the rule.Also the mum would have to go to the school and put you down as emergency contact and temporary guardian.No legal work.Just the moms agreement.
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Could these factors change custody?
My husband gets summer visitatio with his 6 year old daughter for two months. We have taken her in for developmental evaluations for the past two summers because she is not acting her age. She is very anti-social, has comprehension delays, did not talk until the age of four, could not dress herself when she was five, talks to herself a lot, lies about everything, cries about everything, etc. At both evals it was recommended that she receive speech therapy and occupational therapy. We passed the information on to mom and she did nothing. The child has also seen a specialist because her feet turn in really bad when she walks. She was fitted with special insoles to wear with tennis shoes and is supposed to wear then all the time. No flip flops allowed. Well, mom sent her out to us for the summer without the insoles and nothing but flip flops! The child told us that mom doesn't make her wear them. WTF! My husband and I are very upset about this whole situation and wish there was more we can do but since we live in a different state, we aren't sure what we can do. There is also a history of molestation two years ago that mom did nothing about! We reported it and unfortunetly it was unfounded. Therapy was recommended after the incident but mom failed to do that as well. We just want what's best for my (step) daughter. She is going into firstgrade this year and I know how mean kids can be. I don't want her to be the one all the kids make fun of. Does anyone think we have a strong enough case to take to court and ask for custody? Does anyone have any insight or advice to give us? Thanks!Could these factors change custody?You probably have enough to say she's neglected by her mother if you take it to court. Your stepdaughter has health issues and her mother isn't helping with these problems and with that alone you probably have enough to get a judge to take the case. Add in your stepdaughter's developmental problems and the fact that she was denied therapy by her mother you should be able to get the custody case taken to court. With everything you've done for her you have a good chance of winning, especially if she gets along well with you and the courts see you as a good mother figure for her. My former best friend's mother lost custody of her to her father after he remarried because he could provide better care for her and her siblings.Could these factors change custody?You could take it to court saying that the mom is incapable of tending to the child's needs. If the Dr is saying something and she is ignoring it it could fall under child neglect. I recommend looking into getting more information about the law and about what all child neglect means and ways to gain custody of her. Maybe try to make an arrangement with the mother saying she can come over and visit but can no longer take the child. If she doesn't agree to it you will go to court and get full custody.Could these factors change custody?I don't have any personal advice but, you have an extremely strong case against her mother. Make sure you can prove everything you accuse her of with some sort of visual proof, saying something happened doesn't always help. Another thing is to have her father be the one to do most of the talking. As much as you may or may not like the actual mother you come across as vindictive if you say everything and your husband (the father) doesn't.Could these factors change custody?I would think so.
She needs special attention, and corrective insoles, and her mother isn't giving her any of those things. I would think a Family Court judge would rethink the original custody agreement.Could these factors change custody?Get copies of the evaluation from the psychologist and the Dr. that is treating her for the problem with her feet. Then find the number for Child Protective Services in the city she lives in and call in a report of medical neglect. Let them know that you have reports from doctors you have taken her to where you live and ask for their fax number so you can fax the reports to them. With this information they should be able to force mom to continue with this medical care.
Is this enough that you can regain custody, probably not unless mom just outright refuses and CPS steps in and takes the child.live.com short hair styles
She needs special attention, and corrective insoles, and her mother isn't giving her any of those things. I would think a Family Court judge would rethink the original custody agreement.Could these factors change custody?Get copies of the evaluation from the psychologist and the Dr. that is treating her for the problem with her feet. Then find the number for Child Protective Services in the city she lives in and call in a report of medical neglect. Let them know that you have reports from doctors you have taken her to where you live and ask for their fax number so you can fax the reports to them. With this information they should be able to force mom to continue with this medical care.
Is this enough that you can regain custody, probably not unless mom just outright refuses and CPS steps in and takes the child.
Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?
My 7 year old son for the last week has been saying he wants to kill people including me. he has been depressed and acting out in school. we are suposed to go to court tomorrow to finalize our custody agreement changing custody from living with dad and me having every other weekend to pretty close to 50:50. I am worried for my sons health that changing houses ever few days is not best for him now that I had to take him to the mental hospital yesterday. dad is no where to be fould and dads wife will not tell me how I can get hold of their dad to tell him i took him to a hospital. dad refuses to pay anything the court ordered him to being half health insurance half copayments, and also take parenting classes and take counseling through a program here where we live and he was to pay half of that also and he refuses to go even when i told him i will pay the whole thing. do i have to agree to this order tomorrow or can i request since dad is not helping with the teachers at school and not financially helping with their medical care( i was granted all rights to care for them medically cause dad wasnt doing it) can i request that they both be placed with me. dad has no structure in his house and i have heard dad and step mom screaming at each other putting my son down while i was talking to him when he called me begging me to pick him up after he told his step mom to let his dad ( who had kidney transplant and its rejecting ) sit out side in the cold and die. he heard them saying he is a bad child and I am worried about him. is there any possibility the judge will throw out this order that we were forced to agree upon by the court ordered guardian ad litem? can the judge just throw this agreement out and put them in my care? I have an attorney but he is no good and will not return my calls since i think he is ready to get this case off of his hands since he knows we have no more money and he has been charging us for all these times he had to go to court to re schedule it. so please dont tell me to ask my attorney cause i have triedCan judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?Yes the judge can do anything that they want to. If you haven't already signed a final parenting plan then you can always just take the thing to trial. (Which I know that no one wants to do.) But just so you know, even if you have agreed on a final parenting plan the judge still doesn't have to sign it if they don't agree with it. I speak from personal experience as getting my final parenting plan in place was a nightmare that took 2 and 1/2 years to finalize. If you don't want the plan then don't settle. You are talking about your kids and what you think is best for them here.
Best of luck to you.Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?then you need to change attorneys.
they should be able to answer your questionsCan judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?the judge can do anything he wants in the best interest of the child
Best of luck to you.Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?then you need to change attorneys.
they should be able to answer your questionsCan judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?the judge can do anything he wants in the best interest of the child
Change Custody ...im 18 ??
I have been living with my mom ever since my parents got divorced when i was 2 years old. I have had a normal relationship with my mother but since my older brother has moved out of the house 3 years ago, our relationship has shifted drastically. We argue everyday and we can't seem to get along. Its unhealthy for me emotionally to deal with her anylonger. I have tried to sit and talk with her about how our relationship is but it doesn't work. I want my dad to have custody of me..or idk cause im 18 still in school ..how does that work...????
I need help ASAP ..thank you !!!!Change Custody ...im 18 ??You are now considered a adult you can live with who ever you chooseChange Custody ...im 18 ??You're an adult. You're lucky your mom doesn't toss you out. Don't play one parent against the other. Work on the issues you have with your mother. Running away will solve nothing. She has taken care of you since birth...she has earned respect for that much. WORK IT OUT, don't run away like my stepson did. He played that game for a while...when one parent would get fed up with him he would go back to the other. Custody is no longer an issue, but like I said, technically you're old enough to be out on your own so I would be careful about burning bridges.Change Custody ...im 18 ??Live wherever you want, you are 18. You can even move out on your own or with friends is you want.Change Custody ...im 18 ??Legally youre an adult so you can now do whatever you want to like live with whomever you wantChange Custody ...im 18 ??Well some will say that you are grown. but you are still your mother responsibility because you are still in school. you need to show her that you are responsive. see if that will work if not then you need to have your mom and dad. sit down and talk about where you should live.Change Custody ...im 18 ??your dad doesnt have to have custody of you.. your 18 it doesnt matter you can move out of your moms and into ur dads.Change Custody ...im 18 ??be a adult and tell her that you want to live with your dad. talk to him and let him know that you want to stay at the same school.
I need help ASAP ..thank you !!!!Change Custody ...im 18 ??You are now considered a adult you can live with who ever you chooseChange Custody ...im 18 ??You're an adult. You're lucky your mom doesn't toss you out. Don't play one parent against the other. Work on the issues you have with your mother. Running away will solve nothing. She has taken care of you since birth...she has earned respect for that much. WORK IT OUT, don't run away like my stepson did. He played that game for a while...when one parent would get fed up with him he would go back to the other. Custody is no longer an issue, but like I said, technically you're old enough to be out on your own so I would be careful about burning bridges.Change Custody ...im 18 ??Live wherever you want, you are 18. You can even move out on your own or with friends is you want.Change Custody ...im 18 ??Legally youre an adult so you can now do whatever you want to like live with whomever you wantChange Custody ...im 18 ??Well some will say that you are grown. but you are still your mother responsibility because you are still in school. you need to show her that you are responsive. see if that will work if not then you need to have your mom and dad. sit down and talk about where you should live.Change Custody ...im 18 ??your dad doesnt have to have custody of you.. your 18 it doesnt matter you can move out of your moms and into ur dads.Change Custody ...im 18 ??be a adult and tell her that you want to live with your dad. talk to him and let him know that you want to stay at the same school.
How do I make my siblings feel welcome after a custody change?
I'm 17 and I'm my dad's oldest child. He divorced his second wife five years ago and she moved to another state with one of the kids they had together (one stayed with us) and with her own kids (my steps). Now she's terminally ill and my dad is taking the kids.
What do you think I could do to make them feel welcome? My dad works (he is a workaholic... kind of) and I don't think he's that thrilled about having to take his ex's three kids from another relationship, anyway. It was the only way to avoid going to court, like, she was either going to sign everything, if he took her kids, or she was going to try to get the court to give custody to her family because she wanted all of them to stay together. Which I understand, I'm just saying my dad got stuck with three kids that aren't in any way his and that he's never even had in the house before (they didn't live with us when they were married).
So anyway, anything I can do? Kids are ages 6 to 12.How do I make my siblings feel welcome after a custody change?WOW, I applaud you soooo much. The fact that you posted this question says alot about who you are. You're a very caring and loving person, and for a 17 year old to be so selfless is very rare. I should know, I have a 17 year old son. Anyhow, in regard to your question, it sounds like you all have alot of adjusting to do. Keep in mind that the move isn't the only thing that will affect them, but the fact that their mother is terminally ill. That will be very hard on them and they are too young to grasp it all. I would recommend to your father that he get a family counselor to help them cope with the grief they are sure to endure. From what I can tell, you and your father are very kind people and I'm sure you'll try your hardest to help them to adjust. Just try not to be pushy, let them open up at their own pace, and don't ask too many questions, it makes them feel invasive. Try to do the things they like with them and show them you're interested in what they are. Accept them as they are. I feel for these kiddo's, but it sounds like you're going to do great. I'm proud of you for caring so much. Good luck!How do I make my siblings feel welcome after a custody change?they'll get adjusted.....just be friendly to them..
What do you think I could do to make them feel welcome? My dad works (he is a workaholic... kind of) and I don't think he's that thrilled about having to take his ex's three kids from another relationship, anyway. It was the only way to avoid going to court, like, she was either going to sign everything, if he took her kids, or she was going to try to get the court to give custody to her family because she wanted all of them to stay together. Which I understand, I'm just saying my dad got stuck with three kids that aren't in any way his and that he's never even had in the house before (they didn't live with us when they were married).
So anyway, anything I can do? Kids are ages 6 to 12.How do I make my siblings feel welcome after a custody change?WOW, I applaud you soooo much. The fact that you posted this question says alot about who you are. You're a very caring and loving person, and for a 17 year old to be so selfless is very rare. I should know, I have a 17 year old son. Anyhow, in regard to your question, it sounds like you all have alot of adjusting to do. Keep in mind that the move isn't the only thing that will affect them, but the fact that their mother is terminally ill. That will be very hard on them and they are too young to grasp it all. I would recommend to your father that he get a family counselor to help them cope with the grief they are sure to endure. From what I can tell, you and your father are very kind people and I'm sure you'll try your hardest to help them to adjust. Just try not to be pushy, let them open up at their own pace, and don't ask too many questions, it makes them feel invasive. Try to do the things they like with them and show them you're interested in what they are. Accept them as they are. I feel for these kiddo's, but it sounds like you're going to do great. I'm proud of you for caring so much. Good luck!How do I make my siblings feel welcome after a custody change?they'll get adjusted.....just be friendly to them..
How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?
my parents are divorced
i currently live with my dad
i am 15 and my relationship with my dad is not at all good
my relationship with my mom is very good
i do talk to her through phone and letters monthly(secretly)
she lives in another state than me, one of my brothers, and my dad
she has went to court to have visitation but my dad has not allowed it
plz helpHow do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?In many states, you can make your own decision once you turn 14.
Call the local legal aid society and see if you can get some free legal advice.
Or, look in the telephone book and call the best family attorney you can find. Many will help you for free.
It's a shame that your Dad does not permit the free and open exchange of information with your Mom. You need to discuss that with your attorney or a good psychiatrist/psychologist. Is there an adult, like a good teacher, who you trust to talk with?
Good luck. I'll say a prayer for you that things work out amicably. It's tough enough to be 15 without life being complicated by the issues you are trying to work out on your own.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?Above all else, please keep yourself safe. I hope you have already taken steps to confide in a responsible adult. Whatever you do, keep your %26quot;radar%26quot; on. You are in a delicate emotional state and could be an easy target for a pedophile. When things get tough, try going for a walk.
We'd need to know the form of emotional abuse, the reason your mom didn't even have basic visitation rights, and what your living situation would be with your mom.
Your dad could be just trying to protect you, we don't know. Your mom could be a drug addict, or so mentally messed up that you'd receive no guidence at this critical time in life.
There's a saying that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. You might be in a bit of a tough spot, but I'd say to just do your best to get through the next few years.
Now is the time in your life when hard work really pays. I'd suggest you buckle down and try to get along with your dad. If your dad is actually abusive, and not just cramping your style, then your mom should get involved legally. If she doesn't, I have to think maybe you're just going to have to do your best to get through the next few years and set up your own future.
i currently live with my dad
i am 15 and my relationship with my dad is not at all good
my relationship with my mom is very good
i do talk to her through phone and letters monthly(secretly)
she lives in another state than me, one of my brothers, and my dad
she has went to court to have visitation but my dad has not allowed it
plz helpHow do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?In many states, you can make your own decision once you turn 14.
Call the local legal aid society and see if you can get some free legal advice.
Or, look in the telephone book and call the best family attorney you can find. Many will help you for free.
It's a shame that your Dad does not permit the free and open exchange of information with your Mom. You need to discuss that with your attorney or a good psychiatrist/psychologist. Is there an adult, like a good teacher, who you trust to talk with?
Good luck. I'll say a prayer for you that things work out amicably. It's tough enough to be 15 without life being complicated by the issues you are trying to work out on your own.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?Above all else, please keep yourself safe. I hope you have already taken steps to confide in a responsible adult. Whatever you do, keep your %26quot;radar%26quot; on. You are in a delicate emotional state and could be an easy target for a pedophile. When things get tough, try going for a walk.
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How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?have her do it agian and speak up on your own about your feelings, unless your mom is unfit most judges will listen to your feelingsHow do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?Have one of your friends take you to the courthouse and file a motion to change custody and they will set a court date for you and the judge will listen to what you have to say. Or you can always just call social services and ask them what you can do.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?Your courthouse should have a set of pro se documents. Your mom can fill them out and request a hearing to get custody. I don't think it costs much probably less than $50. You are 15 so a judge should take your wishes into account when making his decision.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?Youre 15. You have a voice-use it. Talk to your guidance counselor at school about going to child youth services and getting an advocate to help you talk to a judge about what's going on and what you want to do. it's obvious to me that ur mom would love to have you and it probably wouldn't be a bad thing for your dad, he sounds like he's going thru some issues of his own. Everyone deserves to be happy and I think if you speak up, everyone (including you) would be.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?.Call child protective services and tell them that your Mom has visitation, but your father won't allow it. Tell them that you would like to see your Mom. If you are interested in living with your Mom, now is the time to speak up, while you have the interest of child protective services. They will listen to you now that your 15, but keep cool, don't act arrogant with the case worker. Explain to them that your Dad is emotionally abusive.How do i find an easy way to change custody from an emotionally abusive dad to my mom without alot of money?This is a very tough question without knowing more of the details. If your dad has custody and your mom doesn't have even basic visitation I have to guess there's a reason.We'd need to know the form of emotional abuse, the reason your mom didn't even have basic visitation rights, and what your living situation would be with your mom.
Your dad could be just trying to protect you, we don't know. Your mom could be a drug addict, or so mentally messed up that you'd receive no guidence at this critical time in life.
There's a saying that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. You might be in a bit of a tough spot, but I'd say to just do your best to get through the next few years.
Now is the time in your life when hard work really pays. I'd suggest you buckle down and try to get along with your dad. If your dad is actually abusive, and not just cramping your style, then your mom should get involved legally. If she doesn't, I have to think maybe you're just going to have to do your best to get through the next few years and set up your own future.
How would i be able to change custody of myself {age 13}?
just a lil curiousHow would i be able to change custody of myself {age 13}?This is not your decision until you are %26quot;of age%26quot; which in most countries (or States) is 18.How would i be able to change custody of myself {age 13}?Unfortunately you can't officially change custody from one parent to the other. It will be something that has to be determined in court and by your parents. But if you really are serious I would sit down and talk with your parents, both of them, and tell them how you feel. I know it is hard telling one parent you don't want to live with them but you can do it. Also, during any custody hearing a judge may ask your input since you are over 12 years old. But the key is to be honest with your parents.rodents 4how can i get my ex back
How Do I file the motion for a temporary change in custody myself?
My ex wife has custody of our two girls. They are being told that they have to move out of the home that they are in. They have no where to go because my ex wife and her boyfriend do not have jobs. How do I write up a show cause order or file for a change in custody to at least change custody temporarily to give them a chance to find a job and a place of their own? I live in North Carolina and in the town that I live I have to write up my own orders since I cannot afford to pay an attorney and legal aid does not get involved in these situations. The only evidence that I would have in court is the landlord's name and phone number and address other than the fast that she has been reported to Child Protective Services. Is that enough? Thanks so for any advice that you can give.How Do I file the motion for a temporary change in custody myself?I would go to Family Court and ask the clerk what paperwork you need to fill out. It will still have to go through the court system for any change to take place unless your ex gives you the children willingly or unless CPS has removed them from her care.How Do I file the motion for a temporary change in custody myself?You need to file your motion in the same court where you got your divorce, in front of the same judge if possible. Find out when that judge hears domestic motions.
Then type up your motion using the case caption from your divorce.
Say: Comes now the father (I don't know if you were the petitioner or the respondent in your case) in this matter and respectfully requests the Court grant temporary residency of the minor children with him. In support of this motion, the Court is advised:
1. The mother of the minor children currently has residential custody.
2. The mother of the minor children is being evicted.
3. The minor children will have no home.
4. The father of the minor children is willing and able to provide a residence for the children.
It is so moved.
(sign your name, address and phone number)
Notice of Hearing
Please be advised this matter will be heard on the ___ day of ____, 2009 at _____ o'clock in courtroom number _____ of the ______ County Courthouse.
Certificate of Service
I,(your name), hereby certify that I delivered a true and correct copy of the above and foregoing Motion and Notice of Hearing to (mother's name and address) via U.S. Mail, an informational copy to Honorable (judge's name and address) and filed the original with the Clerk of the District Court.
Sign the document.
Make several copies of the document. File it with the appropriate court clerk. You may have to pay a filing fee. Get file stamped copies back. Keep one for yourself, mail one to your ex-wife and mail one to the judge. then show up for the hearing with your evidence.
OR if your ex-wife is in agreement with this, then just type up an Agreed Order with places at the bottom for both you and your ex to sign and have your signatures notarized, a place for the judge to sign, send it to the judge for his signature and filing with the court, and be sure to provide a self addressed stamped envelope for them to return a copy to you.
Hope this helps. It's how it is done here where I live.
Then type up your motion using the case caption from your divorce.
Say: Comes now the father (I don't know if you were the petitioner or the respondent in your case) in this matter and respectfully requests the Court grant temporary residency of the minor children with him. In support of this motion, the Court is advised:
1. The mother of the minor children currently has residential custody.
2. The mother of the minor children is being evicted.
3. The minor children will have no home.
4. The father of the minor children is willing and able to provide a residence for the children.
It is so moved.
(sign your name, address and phone number)
Notice of Hearing
Please be advised this matter will be heard on the ___ day of ____, 2009 at _____ o'clock in courtroom number _____ of the ______ County Courthouse.
Certificate of Service
I,(your name), hereby certify that I delivered a true and correct copy of the above and foregoing Motion and Notice of Hearing to (mother's name and address) via U.S. Mail, an informational copy to Honorable (judge's name and address) and filed the original with the Clerk of the District Court.
Sign the document.
Make several copies of the document. File it with the appropriate court clerk. You may have to pay a filing fee. Get file stamped copies back. Keep one for yourself, mail one to your ex-wife and mail one to the judge. then show up for the hearing with your evidence.
OR if your ex-wife is in agreement with this, then just type up an Agreed Order with places at the bottom for both you and your ex to sign and have your signatures notarized, a place for the judge to sign, send it to the judge for his signature and filing with the court, and be sure to provide a self addressed stamped envelope for them to return a copy to you.
Hope this helps. It's how it is done here where I live.
Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?
I fill file an emergency change in custody order tomorow....I have joint custody of my 3 daugters 8( twins ) and a 12 year old....
However every time they come back from their dad they are really traumatized and angry...he is not there most of the time ( working late I guess ) and his new girlfriend who lives with him is traumatizing the kids...she had a car accident last week with the kkids in the car and she was blaming them for it...also my oldest admit it in school yesturday thet she is more at the neighbors house while at her dads bc she hates his girlfriend and he is never around....her grades are also gratly afected...and she told the teacher how unhappy she is at her dads house
There are many other factors and issues....The kids are crying and asking for help from me ...saying that they are miserable there...
Do you think this is enough evidence to change custody...as I said there is a lot more to it...too long to explain
Thank youIs there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Oh honey. This sounds so so very familiar. The short answer is that there is no easy solution to this problem. Once the court gives a dad like that custody, you're pretty much not going to be able to get it away from him.
My children are 9 and 11, and we've been wrestling with a very similar problem for almost 4 years. The one suggestion that may work, depending on the county where you filed for divorce, is to file for a move away. You'll have to pay for the evaluation, which will cost several thousand dollars, but the court will be forced to choose a parent in the event that you move away.
Some counties almost always side with the mom. Others almost always side with the person who isn't moving. It didn't work out for us, but it may for you.
Here are some tips for surviving purgatory:
1) Build really close relationships with your kids. Make lots and lots of time for them. More than you think you can possibly stand right now. Talk to them about everything. Have family dinners. Make sure you spend one-on-one time with each and make sure they know you think that each of them is special. Remember that when they're being the most challenging is when they need the most love. He's going to try some stuff to make you seem like the bad guy, but if you have a strong foundation with them, it won't work well.
2) Be honest about their father, but don't go out of your way to slam him, even when he's being a complete jerk. Answer their questions honestly and completely, but don't complain about him or insult him.
3) Document. Make sure that you write down and keep track of the jerky stuff he does. Keeping a journal is a good way to do it. Unless he leaves a mark on them, chances are, you'll never get to use it, but it may make you feel better to get it out. Who knows? Maybe some day you can ruin his life like he's ruined yours.
4) Keep your cool. Don't panic. Things suck now, but you're going to get through it. Try not to let your kids see you upset, and do your best not to let your ex, the judge, or the mediator see you cry.
5) Hold on to community. Divorces can be really rough on your other relationships. Keep hold of those friendships. Spend time with people at church, family, or the other people you're close to. Make friends with other parents at the kids' school. They may be a witness to your jerk ex's behavior, and they can be a good support and a good resource.
6) Keep your chin up. You'll get through this. Your girls will get through this. Just be there for them and you'll all make it.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?How did YOU lose custody in the first place?Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Probably not. You have to prove your ex is unfit and nothing you have said makes him sound unfit. Annoying, irresponsible - sure, but not unfit. I would agree on the mental side of things but you will have to prove he is mentally harming the children and for that you will need a counselor or psychologist to side with you - doubt you've gone that route yet...
I recommend you start with counseling for the kids before you go filing emergency custody orders.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?You have to have hard proof.
anything else is heresay.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Unless you can deem the other parent unfit, there is a snowballs chance in hell you will get a change in custody. You can document, you can request a meeting with the father, you can support your children the best you can but taking them away will be near impossible. Make the best of it and know 50% of the time they are well cared for. Sorry.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Here is what I would tell you. Forget trying to order an emergency change of custody for now. I would report both he and his girlfriend to child services for neglect. Set up a time with them to interview the kids while they are with you. The kids are old enough to explain to a caseworker what is going on. They'll do an investigation and if they believe the children are at risk, they may file a change of custody with the court for you.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?I doubt it. Unless you can prove that she is harming the children..
However every time they come back from their dad they are really traumatized and angry...he is not there most of the time ( working late I guess ) and his new girlfriend who lives with him is traumatizing the kids...she had a car accident last week with the kkids in the car and she was blaming them for it...also my oldest admit it in school yesturday thet she is more at the neighbors house while at her dads bc she hates his girlfriend and he is never around....her grades are also gratly afected...and she told the teacher how unhappy she is at her dads house
There are many other factors and issues....The kids are crying and asking for help from me ...saying that they are miserable there...
Do you think this is enough evidence to change custody...as I said there is a lot more to it...too long to explain
Thank youIs there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Oh honey. This sounds so so very familiar. The short answer is that there is no easy solution to this problem. Once the court gives a dad like that custody, you're pretty much not going to be able to get it away from him.
My children are 9 and 11, and we've been wrestling with a very similar problem for almost 4 years. The one suggestion that may work, depending on the county where you filed for divorce, is to file for a move away. You'll have to pay for the evaluation, which will cost several thousand dollars, but the court will be forced to choose a parent in the event that you move away.
Some counties almost always side with the mom. Others almost always side with the person who isn't moving. It didn't work out for us, but it may for you.
Here are some tips for surviving purgatory:
1) Build really close relationships with your kids. Make lots and lots of time for them. More than you think you can possibly stand right now. Talk to them about everything. Have family dinners. Make sure you spend one-on-one time with each and make sure they know you think that each of them is special. Remember that when they're being the most challenging is when they need the most love. He's going to try some stuff to make you seem like the bad guy, but if you have a strong foundation with them, it won't work well.
2) Be honest about their father, but don't go out of your way to slam him, even when he's being a complete jerk. Answer their questions honestly and completely, but don't complain about him or insult him.
3) Document. Make sure that you write down and keep track of the jerky stuff he does. Keeping a journal is a good way to do it. Unless he leaves a mark on them, chances are, you'll never get to use it, but it may make you feel better to get it out. Who knows? Maybe some day you can ruin his life like he's ruined yours.
4) Keep your cool. Don't panic. Things suck now, but you're going to get through it. Try not to let your kids see you upset, and do your best not to let your ex, the judge, or the mediator see you cry.
5) Hold on to community. Divorces can be really rough on your other relationships. Keep hold of those friendships. Spend time with people at church, family, or the other people you're close to. Make friends with other parents at the kids' school. They may be a witness to your jerk ex's behavior, and they can be a good support and a good resource.
6) Keep your chin up. You'll get through this. Your girls will get through this. Just be there for them and you'll all make it.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?How did YOU lose custody in the first place?Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Probably not. You have to prove your ex is unfit and nothing you have said makes him sound unfit. Annoying, irresponsible - sure, but not unfit. I would agree on the mental side of things but you will have to prove he is mentally harming the children and for that you will need a counselor or psychologist to side with you - doubt you've gone that route yet...
I recommend you start with counseling for the kids before you go filing emergency custody orders.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?You have to have hard proof.
anything else is heresay.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Unless you can deem the other parent unfit, there is a snowballs chance in hell you will get a change in custody. You can document, you can request a meeting with the father, you can support your children the best you can but taking them away will be near impossible. Make the best of it and know 50% of the time they are well cared for. Sorry.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?Here is what I would tell you. Forget trying to order an emergency change of custody for now. I would report both he and his girlfriend to child services for neglect. Set up a time with them to interview the kids while they are with you. The kids are old enough to explain to a caseworker what is going on. They'll do an investigation and if they believe the children are at risk, they may file a change of custody with the court for you.Is there a chance I will get an emergency change of custody order?I doubt it. Unless you can prove that she is harming the children..
How do I file for a temporary change in custody myself?
My ex wife has custody of our two girls. They are being told that they have to move out of the home that they are in. They have no where to go because my ex wife and her boyfriend do not have jobs. How do I write up a show cause order or file for a change in custody to at least change custody temporarily to give them a chance to find a job and a place of their own? I live in North Carolina and in the town that I live I have to write up my own orders since I cannot afford to pay an attorney and legal aid does not get involved in these situations. The only evidence that I would have in court is the landlord's name and phone number and address other than the fast that she has been reported to Child Protective Services. Is that enough? Thanks so for any advice that you can give.How do I file for a temporary change in custody myself?You file at your local courthouse..the staff can assist in how to fill out the paper work and serve the other party..you should consider filing with solid documentation that they would be homeless..
Is there a way to legally change custody situations temporarily?
My husband and I have physical custody of his daughters but in the summer time they go stay with their mother. We live in California and she lived in Las Vegas. The first summer they went and everything was fine, the second summer she moved to Arizona, but we didn't change any court docs. Now this summer she moved yet again to Nevada, still haven't changed anything- but she has decided to take them to West Virginia for the rest of the summer to visit her mother who is dying of cancer. She has no job, no car and the girls have never had a bed of their own when they go stay with her. She hasn't paid child support ($200 a month total) or half of child care since December of last year. How should we go about getting things changed? We don't necessarily want full custody- we just want her to get her life together so she can start being able to care for the kids. - Meaning, we don't think it's good for our kids, there's no structure when they are with her. Is there something we can do to legally to stop her from taking them next summer? Don't get me wrong, we don't want the kids to NOT see their mother, but the mother needs to get her life in order, and prove to the KIDS that she can care for them financially, emotionally and physically.Is there a way to legally change custody situations temporarily?The court will not restrict her from having the children over the summer due to not paying child support. You would have to prove that she is negligent and cannot care for the children. If you do so this WOULD prevent her from seeing the children which is what you do not want. The court will not allow her to keep the children if she were deemed negligent therefore giving you full custody. It doesn't sound worrisome that she is temporarily moving to take care of her dying mother. Who wouldn't do that if they could? Are the kids happy when they are with her? I'm sure there isn't structure when they are with her, she is probably so relieved to have them after being seperated all year. And 'structure' takes practice which you can't do if you don't see them 9-10 months out of the year.
It's not such a terrible thing to sleep on the floor as long as you are being cared for. And many women do not have jobs or cars and are not seen as bad parents. I was raised in a very poor home and spent most of my childhood years on the floor, but we were happy! A mattress does not a happy home make ;-) Good luck!Is there a way to legally change custody situations temporarily?she cant see the kids if she doesnt pay child support. or at least thats my understanding.
It's not such a terrible thing to sleep on the floor as long as you are being cared for. And many women do not have jobs or cars and are not seen as bad parents. I was raised in a very poor home and spent most of my childhood years on the floor, but we were happy! A mattress does not a happy home make ;-) Good luck!Is there a way to legally change custody situations temporarily?she cant see the kids if she doesnt pay child support. or at least thats my understanding.
Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?
can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change toe agreed order since child is in mental hospital?
My 7 year old son for the last week has been saying he wants to kill people including me. he has been depressed and acting out in school. we are suposed to go to court tomorrow to finalize our custody agreement changing custody from living with dad and me having every other weekend to pretty close to 50:50. I am worried for my sons health that changing houses ever few days is not best for him now that I had to take him to the mental hospital yesterday. dad is no where to be fould and dads wife will not tell me how I can get hold of their dad to tell him i took him to a hospital. dad refuses to pay anything the court ordered him to being half health insurance half copayments, and also take parenting classes and take counseling through a program here where we live and he was to pay half of that also and he refuses to go even when i told him i will pay the whole thing. do i have to agree to this order tomorrow or can i request since dad is not helping with the teachers at school and not financially helping with their medical care( i was granted all rights to care for them medically cause dad wasnt doing it) can i request that they both be placed with me. dad has no structure in his house and i have heard dad and step mom screaming at each other putting my son down while i was talking to him when he called me begging me to pick him up after he told his step mom to let his dad ( who had kidney transplant and its rejecting ) sit out side in the cold and die. he heard them saying he is a bad child and I am worried about him. is there any possibility the judge will throw out this order that we were forced to agree upon by the court ordered guardian ad litem? can the judge just throw this agreement out and put them in my care? I have an attorney but he is no good and will not return my calls since i think he is ready to get this case off of his hands since he knows we have no more money and he has been charging us for all these times he had to go to court to re schedule it. so please dont tell me to ask my attorney cause i have triedCan judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?Real simple answer, Bird Nest Custody
http://bird-nest-custody.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/WhenTheKidsGe
\\\\\\\\\\\\\Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?The judge can do anything he wants to. Try and get something from the hospital doctor's stating what is going on with your son, also what the doctor thinks is best for your son.
If nothing else have your attorney call for a postpoment due to your child's hospitalization.
Don't ask your attorney about this, tell your attorney what you want him to do. He does work for you.Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?It sounds like you could use a new attorney, and some more input or help/advise. I think you should contact www.nationalcasa.org and get someone to represent your child and ask them your questions, also.
A court can do what it wants,but may listen to doctor reports etc........
The court needs to know about death threats, etc...and your son needs guidance as he is way off track with all of this and his feelings.
Here are some ideas for you .......
Your son may do well, if you could find him someone he admires, who is older and into something that your son would like to do with his future.......and ask him to be a mentor......like a footballplayer, business person, basketball player..........someone who isnt his parents.............and who will help guide him.........peculiar personal problem Some good sites for making a quilt for a baby
My 7 year old son for the last week has been saying he wants to kill people including me. he has been depressed and acting out in school. we are suposed to go to court tomorrow to finalize our custody agreement changing custody from living with dad and me having every other weekend to pretty close to 50:50. I am worried for my sons health that changing houses ever few days is not best for him now that I had to take him to the mental hospital yesterday. dad is no where to be fould and dads wife will not tell me how I can get hold of their dad to tell him i took him to a hospital. dad refuses to pay anything the court ordered him to being half health insurance half copayments, and also take parenting classes and take counseling through a program here where we live and he was to pay half of that also and he refuses to go even when i told him i will pay the whole thing. do i have to agree to this order tomorrow or can i request since dad is not helping with the teachers at school and not financially helping with their medical care( i was granted all rights to care for them medically cause dad wasnt doing it) can i request that they both be placed with me. dad has no structure in his house and i have heard dad and step mom screaming at each other putting my son down while i was talking to him when he called me begging me to pick him up after he told his step mom to let his dad ( who had kidney transplant and its rejecting ) sit out side in the cold and die. he heard them saying he is a bad child and I am worried about him. is there any possibility the judge will throw out this order that we were forced to agree upon by the court ordered guardian ad litem? can the judge just throw this agreement out and put them in my care? I have an attorney but he is no good and will not return my calls since i think he is ready to get this case off of his hands since he knows we have no more money and he has been charging us for all these times he had to go to court to re schedule it. so please dont tell me to ask my attorney cause i have triedCan judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?Real simple answer, Bird Nest Custody
http://bird-nest-custody.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/WhenTheKidsGe
\\\\\\\\\\\\\Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?The judge can do anything he wants to. Try and get something from the hospital doctor's stating what is going on with your son, also what the doctor thinks is best for your son.
If nothing else have your attorney call for a postpoment due to your child's hospitalization.
Don't ask your attorney about this, tell your attorney what you want him to do. He does work for you.Can judge throw out agreement for child custody and change the agreed order since child is in mental hospital?It sounds like you could use a new attorney, and some more input or help/advise. I think you should contact www.nationalcasa.org and get someone to represent your child and ask them your questions, also.
A court can do what it wants,but may listen to doctor reports etc........
The court needs to know about death threats, etc...and your son needs guidance as he is way off track with all of this and his feelings.
Here are some ideas for you .......
Your son may do well, if you could find him someone he admires, who is older and into something that your son would like to do with his future.......and ask him to be a mentor......like a footballplayer, business person, basketball player..........someone who isnt his parents.............and who will help guide him.........
Will the court change custody after 4 years?
My husband and I have 6 kids. 4 are his from a previous relationship, 3 of those 4 live with us, and we have had 2 together. . Ex has had 2 kids with her new Hubby and he has 3 from a previous relationship.So that is 5 kids living with us, and 5 kids living with her. She lives out of state and recently filed to change primary physical custody and relocate the three kids that live with us. Nothing has %26quot;substantially changed%26quot; as far as either of our living conditions. Her house is approx 1085 sq ft our is 2100 sq ft. Bio dad( my husband) is on disability and I work. Her husband works and she does not.
We were not worried until we found out that the court ordered an %26quot;evaluation%26quot; of the two oldest how live with us (ages 10 and 8) the kids told us that they told the evaluator that they wanted to live with bio mom because they miss her and want to see her more. She is supposed to visit them at least 4 times a year and so far has only visited them once a year for a few days at a time.
My heart goes out to them but i hate to think that the court would let them go there for that reason. I find it horrible that at their young age they were asked to make that choice. I don't believe that the kids understand the ramifications of what they said and what it would really mean. Her case is arguing change based on the fact that the kids say they want to live there. Is there a chance that this will happen?Will the court change custody after 4 years?Anyone can go to court nowadays and ask for anything. I hope you have a good attorney because there will be a hearing.
Stay calm, stay focused on the kids - their ability to flourish in your home. Let them (court) know you understand they would like to see their mother more but she hasn't taken advantage of the visitation she had. Let the court see how well they do in school, etc. Basically, they want to see a stable, loving home with a scheduled plan of activities, dentist/doctor visits, etc. You don't need to be wealthy - things need to be neat, clean, orderly and functional.Will the court change custody after 4 years?There is always that chance of the court doing the opposite of what you and I think. You really need legal representation. Some courts listen to children of that age group but I think they also take into consideration of where the kids have been and how well they have been taken care of. If the court rules they can go ask that a stipulation be put in the papers that is the children do not like it there they can return.
Good luck.Will the court change custody after 4 years?I suggest getting a good lawyer because it can happen. It is important to let the children know that you will love them no matter what happens or where they choose to live. Unless there is a good reason to change the custody order,I doubt the courts will change the custody order simply because of the wishes of one parent.They are far more concerned with the welfare of the children. Make sure the children understand what the consequences of these events will be.You would be the the ones that they would be missing.They would be moving from their home and leaving behind their friends and familiar surroundings.Will the court change custody after 4 years?When decisions are made in court for children/custody..everything is taken into consideration before a final decision is made..both sides have their own documentations/presentations to speak on..judge have to look at the entire caseWill the court change custody after 4 years?You need to hire an attorney to respond and represent you; maybe they can also push the date back a bit since they just got hired...it depends.
If you don't get an attorney, then show up and be ready to rationally present your side of the story. Make sure you have documentation on her willingness (or lack thereof) to travel to get her kids. That should hold some weight, but since you won't have any sort of written response, you are on shaky ground. While it is possible for someone to write their own, if you don't know what you are doing, you could mess it up worse.
You really need an attorney in this situation. A judge can only make a determination if they have all the information, and it sounds like you guys might find yourselves in over your head in the courtroom and unable to make sure your side of the situation is properly represented.
We were not worried until we found out that the court ordered an %26quot;evaluation%26quot; of the two oldest how live with us (ages 10 and 8) the kids told us that they told the evaluator that they wanted to live with bio mom because they miss her and want to see her more. She is supposed to visit them at least 4 times a year and so far has only visited them once a year for a few days at a time.
My heart goes out to them but i hate to think that the court would let them go there for that reason. I find it horrible that at their young age they were asked to make that choice. I don't believe that the kids understand the ramifications of what they said and what it would really mean. Her case is arguing change based on the fact that the kids say they want to live there. Is there a chance that this will happen?Will the court change custody after 4 years?Anyone can go to court nowadays and ask for anything. I hope you have a good attorney because there will be a hearing.
Stay calm, stay focused on the kids - their ability to flourish in your home. Let them (court) know you understand they would like to see their mother more but she hasn't taken advantage of the visitation she had. Let the court see how well they do in school, etc. Basically, they want to see a stable, loving home with a scheduled plan of activities, dentist/doctor visits, etc. You don't need to be wealthy - things need to be neat, clean, orderly and functional.Will the court change custody after 4 years?There is always that chance of the court doing the opposite of what you and I think. You really need legal representation. Some courts listen to children of that age group but I think they also take into consideration of where the kids have been and how well they have been taken care of. If the court rules they can go ask that a stipulation be put in the papers that is the children do not like it there they can return.
Good luck.Will the court change custody after 4 years?I suggest getting a good lawyer because it can happen. It is important to let the children know that you will love them no matter what happens or where they choose to live. Unless there is a good reason to change the custody order,I doubt the courts will change the custody order simply because of the wishes of one parent.They are far more concerned with the welfare of the children. Make sure the children understand what the consequences of these events will be.You would be the the ones that they would be missing.They would be moving from their home and leaving behind their friends and familiar surroundings.Will the court change custody after 4 years?When decisions are made in court for children/custody..everything is taken into consideration before a final decision is made..both sides have their own documentations/presentations to speak on..judge have to look at the entire caseWill the court change custody after 4 years?You need to hire an attorney to respond and represent you; maybe they can also push the date back a bit since they just got hired...it depends.
If you don't get an attorney, then show up and be ready to rationally present your side of the story. Make sure you have documentation on her willingness (or lack thereof) to travel to get her kids. That should hold some weight, but since you won't have any sort of written response, you are on shaky ground. While it is possible for someone to write their own, if you don't know what you are doing, you could mess it up worse.
You really need an attorney in this situation. A judge can only make a determination if they have all the information, and it sounds like you guys might find yourselves in over your head in the courtroom and unable to make sure your side of the situation is properly represented.
16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?
My 16 yr old step-daughter has notified my husband and I that she wants to live with us permanently. There is currently a joint physical custody court order in place. How can we help her? How can she prepare to go up against her mother (who will never agree) in front of a judge? She is VERY intimidated (scared) by (of) her mother.
Is a lawyer needed or necessary or can she represent herself?
How much value is there in the child's request for change of custody in comparison to the mother not agreeing?
Finally, she has a 14 1/2 year old sibling. Will the judge look at this and not allow the custody change to take place?
Thank you in advance for all that answer.16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?I would highly recommend getting her a lawyer if it comes to court, but before court a mediator can be a wonderful tool, with a mediator she can sit in a seperate room from her mother while the mediator runs back and forth between the two parties and works out an amicable agreement before going into court.
It will help her prepare herself for court, prepare what her arguments will be and understand what her mothers arguments will be. Also since she does not have to face her mother directly in mediation it will be a huge confidence booster. Lastly it gives both parties the opportunity to come to an agreement before court so when you face the judge all parties are on the same page and the judge just has to sign the documents and knock around a gavel.16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?Thank you Dragonladyofwater. I didn't think of the mediator. I do want to ask why we need an agreement drawn for the judge. Do you mean for visitation?
Is a lawyer needed or necessary or can she represent herself?
How much value is there in the child's request for change of custody in comparison to the mother not agreeing?
Finally, she has a 14 1/2 year old sibling. Will the judge look at this and not allow the custody change to take place?
Thank you in advance for all that answer.16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?I would highly recommend getting her a lawyer if it comes to court, but before court a mediator can be a wonderful tool, with a mediator she can sit in a seperate room from her mother while the mediator runs back and forth between the two parties and works out an amicable agreement before going into court.
It will help her prepare herself for court, prepare what her arguments will be and understand what her mothers arguments will be. Also since she does not have to face her mother directly in mediation it will be a huge confidence booster. Lastly it gives both parties the opportunity to come to an agreement before court so when you face the judge all parties are on the same page and the judge just has to sign the documents and knock around a gavel.16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?Thank you Dragonladyofwater. I didn't think of the mediator. I do want to ask why we need an agreement drawn for the judge. Do you mean for visitation?
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16 yr old wants to change custody in MD...joint custody involved.?she.s of legal age to choose who she wants to live with on parents by law .
Change custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?
I would like to change our custody status from joint to full because the order is 4 years old. At the time, I made a significant amount more then him, but we split the time 50/50. That lasted one year. He has spent no more then a week with her, she was actually in his parents care, since 2008. I have her 100% and now make less then half of his income due to a lay off. She and I maintain a very healthy relationship with his family but he makes no effort. He is in the Air Force and has been in Korea for a year(10/08-09/09) and now Guam(05/10-10/10), which I do not hold him responsible for, I understand that it is out of his control. There is still no effort of communication(1 30 second phone call every 15-20 days) on his part as well as no help at all. I fund all school, social, and extracurricular activities as well as the interstate travel for visits with his family. I receive daycare assistance but am still getting drowned. I have her in my physical custody all the time and need much more support help but have no idea how to go about filing without an attorney. He will not cooperate at all.Change custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?Its not that difficult. You go to the courthouse and file for an amendment to your current custody order (ask the magistrate or clerk at the desk you file, just be frank and say you have no money and need an amendment, they will help you) and you make sure that on the court date given to you that you bring proof of the fact he does not spend half time with her, the courts dont care if hes in the military, its about spending half time with your kid.... so if he doesnt, he pays to help you. If you have your ducks in a row, show the courts that you do in fact have your child all the time, the judge will give you support. Make sure you go in there with all the documents, notes, dates, everything you can to prove his absence... be organized, speak polite and remain calm... that in itself speaks volumes to the judge.... if your ex is there and gets all uptight..... that shows who he really is...... You have a right to support for your child if the father is not around..... thats a fact.
good luckChange custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?You can also get help and advice from your local child support office,they work for you thru tax dollars. You have a right to use the free services there no matter how much you make. even in joint custody situations they do have a scale to compare what you make to what he makes and do some adjustments and get court orders.Change custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?This is one of those times when the only thing more expensive than hiring an attorney is NOT hiring a really good attorney! In the petition to the court, include his paying legal fees for the attorney due to his failure to abide by the prior court order, and his neglect of his daughter.
Actually, if he's military, there should be dependent allowance, I believe. You want that dependent allowance to be paid directly to you along with the full custody.
Get going. Get an attorney. Get it done.
good luckChange custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?You can also get help and advice from your local child support office,they work for you thru tax dollars. You have a right to use the free services there no matter how much you make. even in joint custody situations they do have a scale to compare what you make to what he makes and do some adjustments and get court orders.Change custody from joint to full with a 5yr old girl.?This is one of those times when the only thing more expensive than hiring an attorney is NOT hiring a really good attorney! In the petition to the court, include his paying legal fees for the attorney due to his failure to abide by the prior court order, and his neglect of his daughter.
Actually, if he's military, there should be dependent allowance, I believe. You want that dependent allowance to be paid directly to you along with the full custody.
Get going. Get an attorney. Get it done.
Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?
I agreed to awarding my ex sole custody last year only because I felt litigation was spinning out of control and keeping the kids in the thick of things. I've always had my concerns about his ability to parent and now, I'm seeing a steady decline in my children's grades in school.
My daughter, who has been a straight A student in the past, has finished her sophomore year third trimester with a 1.2 GPA. One F and 3 D's! :(
From what I've read, it would appear that I'd have to prove the CP unfit in order to change custody. My ex has also brainwashed my kids so the idea of getting them to specify preference for living with me is out of the question. My ex has the maturity level of a 17 year old and parents as such. What kid would want to change that?
Ex has no money and relies on the child support I send to support himself. The kids know this and would worry how he'll get by if child support ends (I would not ask for child support if I succeeded in changing custody.)
His home is unstable but I don't know how the court would view this situation with respect to changing custody from one parent to the other; particularly, if the child(ren) prefer(s) staying with the CP.
Any ideas?Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?You have reason to step in-take that report card to a lawyer and get started. If he has no money, he will back off anyway.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?stop asking start taking action now, this is wrong you can prove it in a court of law. now is the time to stop thinking about what they think about you. now is the time for you too take action and call a lawyer since his only source of income is you paying child support.
you can demand the following a child therapist to enter the home, and go to to the school to check out there grades, and talk to all of the of there teachers for your own children. the state to appoint your own children a free paid attorney by the state to represent them free of charge from the state. demand that a drug test on the children and him; not too mention the living conditions in the house and the neighborhood...
also demand a blood test from all of them not matter the out come of it. you have to be the parent now to both your children and the ex.
you have to protect your children at all costs. also have a criminal background check run on everyone in his home.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?Declining grades do not prove that he is an unfit parent. It could be enough to get the courts involved-perhaps court ordered counseling etc..But you will need more than that to change custody especially since it sounds like your kids are old enough to influence the decision of the court.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?Not too many answers just encouragement - My trial is set for this Friday... Almost the same situation however the ex has money... It is sad to say that the courts are so supportive of a father that works - even though the emotional abuse /manipulation continues. I was stupid enough to given them up.... he manipulated me and now them... I am trying to break the cycle and the court just keeps telling me that %26quot;court%26quot; is taking a toll on them... This is soooo frustrating... I feel your pain... Keep going...Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?A long drawn out spiel, except for two things missing about your daughter's grades. What does the daughter say about her grades, and what does the school counselor say? Did you even think of talking to them? I imagine you will say that you did, however clearly it was not important enough to you to mention that. You do have as much right to talk to them. More so since they usual think mothers have custody. They won't even question you being there.
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My daughter, who has been a straight A student in the past, has finished her sophomore year third trimester with a 1.2 GPA. One F and 3 D's! :(
From what I've read, it would appear that I'd have to prove the CP unfit in order to change custody. My ex has also brainwashed my kids so the idea of getting them to specify preference for living with me is out of the question. My ex has the maturity level of a 17 year old and parents as such. What kid would want to change that?
Ex has no money and relies on the child support I send to support himself. The kids know this and would worry how he'll get by if child support ends (I would not ask for child support if I succeeded in changing custody.)
His home is unstable but I don't know how the court would view this situation with respect to changing custody from one parent to the other; particularly, if the child(ren) prefer(s) staying with the CP.
Any ideas?Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?You have reason to step in-take that report card to a lawyer and get started. If he has no money, he will back off anyway.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?stop asking start taking action now, this is wrong you can prove it in a court of law. now is the time to stop thinking about what they think about you. now is the time for you too take action and call a lawyer since his only source of income is you paying child support.
you can demand the following a child therapist to enter the home, and go to to the school to check out there grades, and talk to all of the of there teachers for your own children. the state to appoint your own children a free paid attorney by the state to represent them free of charge from the state. demand that a drug test on the children and him; not too mention the living conditions in the house and the neighborhood...
also demand a blood test from all of them not matter the out come of it. you have to be the parent now to both your children and the ex.
you have to protect your children at all costs. also have a criminal background check run on everyone in his home.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?Declining grades do not prove that he is an unfit parent. It could be enough to get the courts involved-perhaps court ordered counseling etc..But you will need more than that to change custody especially since it sounds like your kids are old enough to influence the decision of the court.Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?Not too many answers just encouragement - My trial is set for this Friday... Almost the same situation however the ex has money... It is sad to say that the courts are so supportive of a father that works - even though the emotional abuse /manipulation continues. I was stupid enough to given them up.... he manipulated me and now them... I am trying to break the cycle and the court just keeps telling me that %26quot;court%26quot; is taking a toll on them... This is soooo frustrating... I feel your pain... Keep going...Change in Custody - Are declining grades in high school enough to file for a change?A long drawn out spiel, except for two things missing about your daughter's grades. What does the daughter say about her grades, and what does the school counselor say? Did you even think of talking to them? I imagine you will say that you did, however clearly it was not important enough to you to mention that. You do have as much right to talk to them. More so since they usual think mothers have custody. They won't even question you being there.
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Anyone know how much to change custody & from primary to the other parent if both parties and child agree?
my step son along with my husband, his ex and I all agree it's ok to let Ross move in with us next year and she has primary of him now and well all are fine with swapping custody but all the paperwork has to be changed. any idea on how much this may cost all of us? i know some will say call your lawyer but this is 6 months away and I'd like an estimated idea to know if we could afford it or not.Anyone know how much to change custody %26amp; from primary to the other parent if both parties and child agree?If this is a permit change then yes you need to go to court and change the judgment. But if not then a notarized statement from the mother stating that he has custody to get your stepson to school and the doctor and to change the court order child support is all you need. You take the original support order and the statement to the Child support enforcement and they will stop payment until the child is returned to the custodial parent. If you go to court is usauuly is 275.00How do I spot clean a quilt grey hair
How can i change residential custody (Ohio)?
My mom has residential custody of me because i went to school in her district last year, but now she kicked me out and I'm living with my dad in a different school district. I was told you can change custody online, because my dad does not have the money to pay for a lawyer because that could cost over $1000, what do i need to do?How can i change residential custody (Ohio)?This site has a lot of forms and information. Might be helpful.
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If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?
And is there something I can file first to prevent him from taking the kids, and changing custody?
I am a good mom, dont know why a loser of a father would want to take my kids from me! My kids dont want to be with him because he hurt them too. Because of his actions one child has a mental disorder, how can I prove all of these things against him if its just my word against his?If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I just answered your other question and the answer is yes, you need to use his violent history in court. I went throught the exact same thing and the first thing i did was put my son in counseling the second thing i did was get a restraing order until our court date. Document every threat every phone call, every thing you can. Have a journal with dates and times and what happened. Also when you file for a restraining order ask for an advocate they are wonderful and they can go to court with you and mediation. Do whatever it takes to protect you and your kids, need more write me back and i will be glad to help!!Also ask the court to put him in anger management and ask that the court order supervised visits until the coureses are completed.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?get a letter from doctor proving he caused harm to ur child. use any weapon u got to keep them kids.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?The kids will have their day in court!!!!! The judge will listen to what they want!If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I think he'll have to prove that YOU are not fit as a mother to have custody before the judge would change anything. If it gets that far, you need to speak to a lawyer and put everything on the table so he can go to court to stop this. Remember, he needs to prove his allegations, you just need to answer them.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?Unless he can prove you are an unfit mother, the court is on your side. Did you ever go to the hospital for any of his violence? Get hospital records.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?if your child is seeing a doctor for the mental complications have a doctor write a letter explaining what the cause is and how it can be prevented from becoming more severe you can bring up all and any violent physical times that you have had with him in court if the kids are at least of age where they can talk on their own ask your lawyer can the judge ask them where they would like to live you can file for custody and the judge can decide which one gets temporary custody until the court date also go to the family court and ask ?'s or look in the yellow pages for family lawyers sometimes they give free consultation by phone good luckIf he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?they will take everything into account he cant take your kids unless your proven unfit or you have a substance abuse problem.Do you have proof of his violent behavior?If you have restraining orders or any proof get it together.If your kids are old enough they can choose where they want to live as well.Esspecially the one that has problems now to his dads actions.I dont think the dad really wants the kids i think hes doing this as a revenge to try and hurt and scare you.just be prepared for battle and hang in there girl.
I am a good mom, dont know why a loser of a father would want to take my kids from me! My kids dont want to be with him because he hurt them too. Because of his actions one child has a mental disorder, how can I prove all of these things against him if its just my word against his?If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I just answered your other question and the answer is yes, you need to use his violent history in court. I went throught the exact same thing and the first thing i did was put my son in counseling the second thing i did was get a restraing order until our court date. Document every threat every phone call, every thing you can. Have a journal with dates and times and what happened. Also when you file for a restraining order ask for an advocate they are wonderful and they can go to court with you and mediation. Do whatever it takes to protect you and your kids, need more write me back and i will be glad to help!!Also ask the court to put him in anger management and ask that the court order supervised visits until the coureses are completed.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?get a letter from doctor proving he caused harm to ur child. use any weapon u got to keep them kids.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?The kids will have their day in court!!!!! The judge will listen to what they want!If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I think he'll have to prove that YOU are not fit as a mother to have custody before the judge would change anything. If it gets that far, you need to speak to a lawyer and put everything on the table so he can go to court to stop this. Remember, he needs to prove his allegations, you just need to answer them.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?Unless he can prove you are an unfit mother, the court is on your side. Did you ever go to the hospital for any of his violence? Get hospital records.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?if your child is seeing a doctor for the mental complications have a doctor write a letter explaining what the cause is and how it can be prevented from becoming more severe you can bring up all and any violent physical times that you have had with him in court if the kids are at least of age where they can talk on their own ask your lawyer can the judge ask them where they would like to live you can file for custody and the judge can decide which one gets temporary custody until the court date also go to the family court and ask ?'s or look in the yellow pages for family lawyers sometimes they give free consultation by phone good luckIf he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?they will take everything into account he cant take your kids unless your proven unfit or you have a substance abuse problem.Do you have proof of his violent behavior?If you have restraining orders or any proof get it together.If your kids are old enough they can choose where they want to live as well.Esspecially the one that has problems now to his dads actions.I dont think the dad really wants the kids i think hes doing this as a revenge to try and hurt and scare you.just be prepared for battle and hang in there girl.
Im 17 and i wanna live with my dad can i change custody. state TN
My gradnparents have raised me since a baby i have seen my dad off and on during that time im 16 now ive been spending alot of more time with him. i hate living with my grandparents my papa is always drunk harassing me and my boyfriend my grandma always has to take care of her mother and has no time for me much. what steps do i need to take to move in with my dad he is much more educated and dosent drink anymore and is very well set finacially and treats me better and will have more time for me and help me with school. how to i go about switching custody form grand parents from him. i wouldnt have to change schools or anything. i dont know if they have joint custody or not and my grandma wont give me my social security number or birth certificate what can i do?Im 17 and i wanna live with my dad can i change custody. state TNI would think that your father would know the terms of the custody. But maybe not since it has been so long. If he is amenable to having you live with him he should go speak to a lawyer..... it won't cost much to have one look into it. He can pull up any copies of custody agreements.
Now if it is your social security # you want. I assume you have ID. You can go to DMV and ask them what your social security # is. You can go to a social security office. Now that I think of it your school records should have it in them. Do you have a regular doctor or on someones health insurance? They would have the number..
You can order your birth certificate online pretty cheap. If you were born locally the courthouse probably has a copy.
You first said you were 17 and then 16. If it is 17 you might want to sit tight because if there is any legal wrangling by the time any of this is resolved you would probably have already turned 18. At which point you can just pack up and leave.
But you will still need to have your social and birth certificate for later. So work on that and in the meantime your Dad should do a consult with a lawyer. Im 17 and i wanna live with my dad can i change custody. state TNget an attorney.
Now if it is your social security # you want. I assume you have ID. You can go to DMV and ask them what your social security # is. You can go to a social security office. Now that I think of it your school records should have it in them. Do you have a regular doctor or on someones health insurance? They would have the number..
You can order your birth certificate online pretty cheap. If you were born locally the courthouse probably has a copy.
You first said you were 17 and then 16. If it is 17 you might want to sit tight because if there is any legal wrangling by the time any of this is resolved you would probably have already turned 18. At which point you can just pack up and leave.
But you will still need to have your social and birth certificate for later. So work on that and in the meantime your Dad should do a consult with a lawyer. Im 17 and i wanna live with my dad can i change custody. state TNget an attorney.
How can i change custody?
please help me my mom is very controling im seriously about to go crazy. i want to move in with my dad but she say hes unfit to have custody of me but doesnt the kid have a choice? i live in indiana and im 13How can i change custody?Remember the old saying, 'the grass is always greener on the other side?' But, I bet you haven't heard this other part of it, 'but, it's usually artificial turf.'
Yes, when a child turns 13 or 14 depending on the state he/she can decide where they want to live. Just talk it over with your dad first to see where he's coming from. Then talk with your mom. Of course you want to do things your way but there's a reason why your mom is controlling. It is her job to control you. It's her decision how you are to be raised and as long as you are under the age of 18 she is accountable for you. If you think your dad won't be that way I believe you're in for a rude awakening.
Well, what ever your parents agree on then I hope the best for you.
God Bless.How can i change custody? It may be wise to try some family counseling with both parents, allowing the counselor to know how you are feeling to resolve this issues of your mother being controlling as you see itHow can i change custody?You need to speak with your dad and see if he is willing to take the necessary law abiding steps it takes to have custody of you. How can i change custody?You can ask for a court appointed attorney and have them file a petition for change of custody on your behalf. It is rough, but it can be done. Good luck!How can i change custody?Unfortunately in most states children under a certain age do not have legal rights to change custody. If your parents are not in agreement with the primary custodial parent, then the decision is left to a judge in family court. Most Judges may consider a child's decision at age 12, but it is always not honored.
First, talk with your dad. Ask him important questions like:
1. Are you willing to take on a full time responsibility and being my primary supportive custodial parent?
2. What school will I be going to, if I live with you?
3. What are some of the rules of your home (if you don't already know them)?
Then, ask yourself these questions:
1. Who do I think will would be best to ultimately care for me?
2. Who do I think will be best to nurture, guide and protect me when needed? And could possibly do it to my understanding.
3. Who will provide for me for my life's requirements? Clothes, food, necessities?
4. Who would raise me in a loving and caring environment?
5. Who would make certain that I follow my education path and stay in school?
6. What parent is not involved in drugs, alcohol or is additicted to any negative source that could affect my future? This is the parent you do not want to live with.
Ask him some of the questions that seem to bother you about your mom. Like would you be controlling me too?
Most children call it control...us parents call it responsibility. Mom is probably looking out for your best interest...and I am almost certain that if you have a loving, caring, mature father...he will to!
Yes, when a child turns 13 or 14 depending on the state he/she can decide where they want to live. Just talk it over with your dad first to see where he's coming from. Then talk with your mom. Of course you want to do things your way but there's a reason why your mom is controlling. It is her job to control you. It's her decision how you are to be raised and as long as you are under the age of 18 she is accountable for you. If you think your dad won't be that way I believe you're in for a rude awakening.
Well, what ever your parents agree on then I hope the best for you.
God Bless.How can i change custody? It may be wise to try some family counseling with both parents, allowing the counselor to know how you are feeling to resolve this issues of your mother being controlling as you see itHow can i change custody?You need to speak with your dad and see if he is willing to take the necessary law abiding steps it takes to have custody of you. How can i change custody?You can ask for a court appointed attorney and have them file a petition for change of custody on your behalf. It is rough, but it can be done. Good luck!How can i change custody?Unfortunately in most states children under a certain age do not have legal rights to change custody. If your parents are not in agreement with the primary custodial parent, then the decision is left to a judge in family court. Most Judges may consider a child's decision at age 12, but it is always not honored.
First, talk with your dad. Ask him important questions like:
1. Are you willing to take on a full time responsibility and being my primary supportive custodial parent?
2. What school will I be going to, if I live with you?
3. What are some of the rules of your home (if you don't already know them)?
Then, ask yourself these questions:
1. Who do I think will would be best to ultimately care for me?
2. Who do I think will be best to nurture, guide and protect me when needed? And could possibly do it to my understanding.
3. Who will provide for me for my life's requirements? Clothes, food, necessities?
4. Who would raise me in a loving and caring environment?
5. Who would make certain that I follow my education path and stay in school?
6. What parent is not involved in drugs, alcohol or is additicted to any negative source that could affect my future? This is the parent you do not want to live with.
Ask him some of the questions that seem to bother you about your mom. Like would you be controlling me too?
Most children call it control...us parents call it responsibility. Mom is probably looking out for your best interest...and I am almost certain that if you have a loving, caring, mature father...he will to!
How to i get my parents to change custody?
Right now my parents have joint custody over me and my two sibilings. however i want my dad to have full custody what can i do to make that happen? How to i get my parents to change custody?depending on how old you are, you should have a say, just talk to your parents and tell them that you don't like having to homes and you'd be more settled living in just one home, and that you'd like to stay with your dadHow to i get my parents to change custody?First of all, your father has to take your mother back to court to get a change of custody ordered. He has to show that your mother is unfit and unable to provide proper parenting. Most of all, he has to want custody of you in the first place.
Your best bet would be to talk to your parents and let them know what you want. It just might be that simple. Just keep in mind, you are still a child and you can't make your own decisions until you are 18.How to i get my parents to change custody?Your Dad would have to tak your Mom back to court for a rehearing concerning custody, then petition the court to allow the children voice who they want to live with. After a short session with the Judge, he will either take or not, your opinion under consideration and barring no real objections may side with youHow to i get my parents to change custody?I don't know what state you live in, but in my state the child can't do anything about custody until they are 18, and unless there is a substantial reason to do so, they don't usually modify custody agreements. If you have a really good reason for wanting your father to have full custody, it would still be up to him to file the paperwork. If she agrees to what you want, then you don't need to even go to court, she can just agree to let your father have you more than she does, but if she doesn't agree and fights it, it could get expensive and since you are already 16, I don't want to say it wouldn't be worth it, but it would be money spent that in less than 2 years would be pointless anyway.
I think your first step would be to talk to your dad and see what he thinks, and then talk to your mom and see if she would be OK with it and go from there.How to i get my parents to change custody?If your parents are divorced you can go to either attorney and sign a form that petitions your decision...of course to make things simple and smooth...both parents have to be in agreement.
Talk to them...if they will not listen write them a letter...let them both know how you feel...honesty in this is very important. I have 3 children 1 boy 2 girls and this has been the hardest thing ever...but as a mother I have to forget my hurt and think about what is in the best interest of my kids....sometimes tho...there are things you may not see that your parents are keeping you from seeing because they do not think you need to know...making this the reason you are where you are...things get better if you talk and are honest
Make sure tho that this is something you want...If it is and your mother knows...there is no reason why you can't go with him wihtout the petition...the court order is only there if things are sour and not going right. If she is keeping you because she's mad at him but you and your dad are good...and he does what it is he is suppose to then there should not be a problem....Talk to her...she loves you and she wants you happy.brown hair tiny myspace
Your best bet would be to talk to your parents and let them know what you want. It just might be that simple. Just keep in mind, you are still a child and you can't make your own decisions until you are 18.How to i get my parents to change custody?Your Dad would have to tak your Mom back to court for a rehearing concerning custody, then petition the court to allow the children voice who they want to live with. After a short session with the Judge, he will either take or not, your opinion under consideration and barring no real objections may side with youHow to i get my parents to change custody?I don't know what state you live in, but in my state the child can't do anything about custody until they are 18, and unless there is a substantial reason to do so, they don't usually modify custody agreements. If you have a really good reason for wanting your father to have full custody, it would still be up to him to file the paperwork. If she agrees to what you want, then you don't need to even go to court, she can just agree to let your father have you more than she does, but if she doesn't agree and fights it, it could get expensive and since you are already 16, I don't want to say it wouldn't be worth it, but it would be money spent that in less than 2 years would be pointless anyway.
I think your first step would be to talk to your dad and see what he thinks, and then talk to your mom and see if she would be OK with it and go from there.How to i get my parents to change custody?If your parents are divorced you can go to either attorney and sign a form that petitions your decision...of course to make things simple and smooth...both parents have to be in agreement.
Talk to them...if they will not listen write them a letter...let them both know how you feel...honesty in this is very important. I have 3 children 1 boy 2 girls and this has been the hardest thing ever...but as a mother I have to forget my hurt and think about what is in the best interest of my kids....sometimes tho...there are things you may not see that your parents are keeping you from seeing because they do not think you need to know...making this the reason you are where you are...things get better if you talk and are honest
Make sure tho that this is something you want...If it is and your mother knows...there is no reason why you can't go with him wihtout the petition...the court order is only there if things are sour and not going right. If she is keeping you because she's mad at him but you and your dad are good...and he does what it is he is suppose to then there should not be a problem....Talk to her...she loves you and she wants you happy.
How do you change custody?
please help me my mom is very controling im seriously about to go crazy. i want to move in with my dad but she say hes unfit to have custody of me but doesnt the kid have a choice?How do you change custody?Family law differs within states and you didn't mention what state you live in. However, I would suggest you speak to your dad and ask him to go to court a file a residential legal custody of you which will entitle you to live with him and your mother to have visitation rights with you. In most cases a child 12 or older can decide what parent he/she wants to live with.
Good Luck!How do you change custody?It depends on your age and what state you live in. In Texas the child has a right to decide at 12 yrs old which parent he/she wants to live with. Most times the parent you decide on will still have to take it to court unless the other parents agrees without going to court.
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Good Luck!How do you change custody?It depends on your age and what state you live in. In Texas the child has a right to decide at 12 yrs old which parent he/she wants to live with. Most times the parent you decide on will still have to take it to court unless the other parents agrees without going to court.
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How long do I have to wait after a divorce to change custody?
My atty told me that custody can be changed at any time if there is evidence to use in court that a different arrangement is in the best interest of the child; however, he also said that Judge's really look at a case hard if it's been less than 2 years since the last custody hearing to make sure the parents aren't just using the court process to harass the other parent.How long do I have to wait after a divorce to change custody?My husband and i are going through the same battle with his two kids. here is what our attorney told us. If it has been less than two years you have to show that the children are in some sort of danger or a harmful situation if the custody stays the way it is. If it is more than two years then you can use the %26quot; best intrest of the child%26quot; argument. Our case has been less then two years, but we have proof that the other side is causing physical and emotional harm to the children. If you can prove that then go for it, if not you might have to wait two years.
How do you change custody when it's uncontested?
When my exhusband and I split up, he decided that he should get to keep everything..including our son. I guess he figured the old standby of %26quot;you're never going to see our kid again%26quot; would work like it had before. I decided to call his bluff. Sure enough, my son is living with me now. He has been for over a year. Neither of us want child support from the other, and neither of us can afford an attorney. How do you easily (and cheaply) change custody? Can you simply type up an agreement and have it notarized? Any help would be great!How do you change custody when it's uncontested?im pretty sure there are some autorneys that can explain that to u that dont charge on the first visit.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?You can have a paralegal help you out. It is way cheaper than a lawyer. Write up an agreement first and have the paralegal draw the necessary paperwork for you.. If you and your ex agree, then you just file when you both sign.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?To the best of my knowledge, depending upon the state you live in it is as simple as drawing up a custody or parenting agreement and signing it (a notary would be beneficial too).I'm not a lawyer officially until May but I have done family law and here in my state thats the rule.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?You could do that, how do you know that he is going to do what he said he would do? (as far as doing his part, with the son financially) You could go down to your court house and complete the prooper paper work to get it legalized, at this point the paper work would only benefit him,a bout the agreement, because you have the child. What you want to do is get JOINT legal custody, and you have physical custody along with the joint. Joint just means he stills has rights, and decisions to the child. I am however happy that you guys could work it out without the court system all in your business. BUT, I must tell you once you wave child support, YOU CAN NOT EVER TURN IT BACK ON, ONCE WAVED. BE BLESSED!How do you change custody when it's uncontested?I feel you need to contact and attorney and see what they have to say or offer as advice in this matter. You may have to go back to the courts again if you want something changed. I dont think there is an easy or cheap way to really change custody. Save up money for a lawyer if need be and if you really want this done and changed. You could always call your local courthouse and ask them what you can do in this matter as well. Also call a notary republic and ask them if just a notarized document is legal or not. BUT if it originallly went through the courts you may have to go back through them to get it changed. A paralegal might be able to help in this matter as well. Hope this helps some and good luck.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?yea, thats the first step, then you still have to file it in courtHow do you change custody when it's uncontested?Neither parent needs to sign no agreement being it is uncontested. The two of you are agreeing on this issue and so it should be okay being that you are legally married.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?In all honesty, it is actually easy. Go to your state's website and click on your county icon. Then search for the courthouse, click on their website, then hit the tab for down loadable forms (every state has them and they are free) Look for the %26quot;order to show cause%26quot; or %26quot;change of placement%26quot; forms. fill them out, have them notarized, make three copies. Take them to the courthouse in your county and file them...it costs about $50. They will date stamp them all, assign you a court date, keep one copy and hand you back two. Then you send one to the ex via certified mail (make sure he receives this at least 72 hours prior to the hearing) but allow yourself time to get that return receipt (you'll need it as proof of service). Then you all show up at your court hearing and placement will be changed as long as you both agree.How do you change custody when it's uncontested?You should first contact the family law division of your county court. They should be able to tell you if they have forms for a %26quot;Stipulated Change of Custody/Modification of Custody.%26quot; If they have the forms simply fill them out and file them with the court. If they don't find out from your local bar association if they can recommend a low cost attorney who can help. In a non-contested situation the only work for the attorney is drawing up the papers so it should not be expensive.
On the child support issue, child support is for the child and in most states the courts do NOT allow a parent to waive child support on behalf of the child. Just because you do not want support from your ex doesn't mean your child isn't entitled to be supported by him. You can take the support and put it in a bank account in your son's name if you don't want to accept it yourself. This is your child's birthright and you should not toss it away.
Good luck.
On the child support issue, child support is for the child and in most states the courts do NOT allow a parent to waive child support on behalf of the child. Just because you do not want support from your ex doesn't mean your child isn't entitled to be supported by him. You can take the support and put it in a bank account in your son's name if you don't want to accept it yourself. This is your child's birthright and you should not toss it away.
Good luck.
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