And is there something I can file first to prevent him from taking the kids, and changing custody?
I am a good mom, dont know why a loser of a father would want to take my kids from me! My kids dont want to be with him because he hurt them too. Because of his actions one child has a mental disorder, how can I prove all of these things against him if its just my word against his?If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I just answered your other question and the answer is yes, you need to use his violent history in court. I went throught the exact same thing and the first thing i did was put my son in counseling the second thing i did was get a restraing order until our court date. Document every threat every phone call, every thing you can. Have a journal with dates and times and what happened. Also when you file for a restraining order ask for an advocate they are wonderful and they can go to court with you and mediation. Do whatever it takes to protect you and your kids, need more write me back and i will be glad to help!!Also ask the court to put him in anger management and ask that the court order supervised visits until the coureses are completed.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?get a letter from doctor proving he caused harm to ur child. use any weapon u got to keep them kids.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?The kids will have their day in court!!!!! The judge will listen to what they want!If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?I think he'll have to prove that YOU are not fit as a mother to have custody before the judge would change anything. If it gets that far, you need to speak to a lawyer and put everything on the table so he can go to court to stop this. Remember, he needs to prove his allegations, you just need to answer them.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?Unless he can prove you are an unfit mother, the court is on your side. Did you ever go to the hospital for any of his violence? Get hospital records.If he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?if your child is seeing a doctor for the mental complications have a doctor write a letter explaining what the cause is and how it can be prevented from becoming more severe you can bring up all and any violent physical times that you have had with him in court if the kids are at least of age where they can talk on their own ask your lawyer can the judge ask them where they would like to live you can file for custody and the judge can decide which one gets temporary custody until the court date also go to the family court and ask ?'s or look in the yellow pages for family lawyers sometimes they give free consultation by phone good luckIf he files to change custody can I use his violent history agianst him?they will take everything into account he cant take your kids unless your proven unfit or you have a substance abuse problem.Do you have proof of his violent behavior?If you have restraining orders or any proof get it together.If your kids are old enough they can choose where they want to live as well.Esspecially the one that has problems now to his dads actions.I dont think the dad really wants the kids i think hes doing this as a revenge to try and hurt and scare you.just be prepared for battle and hang in there girl.
