Wednesday, November 24, 2010

When parents have joint custody of kids?

and one parent decides to go back to court for sole custody, how often does court change custody? There is no accusations of any wrong doing, neglect, abuse, or anything done wrong. One parent just WANTS sole custody. I have heard that courts do not like to change from joint to sole (especially for no reason). If it happens, what are the usual reasons?When parents have joint custody of kids?If you have been splitting custody for a while, and the kid is not having behavior problems and doing well in school, the judge will usually not mess with custody. If it ain't broke, why fix it.



Children deserve both parents. It makes me sick when parents use the courts, and their children, to play out little power trips. And no matter who %26quot;wins%26quot; in court, the kids ALWAYS lose. Always.When parents have joint custody of kids?They are going to have to prove that the other parent is unfit. And if worse comes to worse, the children could go and express their desires to the judge (depending on the age)When parents have joint custody of kids?Usually the courts will not change custody unless there is a reason(proven) that the other parent is an unfit parent, and that is very hard to prove!When parents have joint custody of kids?As long as both parents are fit, and the child or children is doing well in school/no behavior or health problems, then the court will not change anyting.





Occasionally, there will be a circumstance when something comes up and both parents agree to having one take sole custody (such as a military parent being called into active duty, or a major health problem for one of the parents or the child), but both parents MUST be agreeable. And it helps if the child(ren) are ok with things too.



Keep in mind, the courts must do what is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. Not the best interest of the parents, not in the best interest of the school/babysitter/hockey team/Little Leage coach/anyone else. It's what's best for the child.