How do we protect the girls?

My gandaughter's BF is telling them they are going to go live with him. My daughter has sole custody and no legal papers have been filed to change custody. The BF was physically, mentally and emotionally abusive to my daughter. We have not seen any signs of physical abuse on the girls but they do come home upset more often than not. Over the last 4-6 weeks he has been telling them that starting the first part of May they will be living with him. This upsets the girls horribly. The BF has also done several other things to emotoinally hurt the older girl, like telling her she ruined x-mas for everyone because she asked what he thought was a rude question and took her x-mas presents away from her. He grounds her (get this, at her MOM's house) because she won't tell him what her grades are at school. Anyway, is there anyway we can get him to stop doing things like this? My daughter has tried to talk to him but he either ignores or dosn't believer her because nothing changes.How do we protect the girls?If he wont listen to anyone there is nothing you can do to make him listen as sad as that is.. you can continue to support the kids and let them know they are NOT going ot be living with him..

also you could contact the attorney who your daughter went thru and inform him/her what is taking place. If you can not get that attorney you can get another one.. you can have papers drwan up stating that in no way is he to continue this when his kids are around him.. if this gets bad enough you could have his visitation taken away.. depending on the age of the girls they should be at the lawyer office as well and they should tell the story in their own words and state if they want to continue to see him or if they dont.. That does not mean that if they do not want to see him they wont have to BUT if old enough their words and wishes do count and will taken into consideration.



I had ot do this with my EX he was saying things about me infront of the kids and then they came home all upset I had it put in the papers that neither parent could bad mouth the other and so on in front of the kids.. Or risk loosing seing the kids this worked he did stop and all is fine..



so since talking to him wont work sounds as if he still hs some very hard feelings take a different route and talk to a lawyer..



Good luckHow do we protect the girls?Yall need to get a lawyer and have this brought up to a judge and see if you can get supervised visition! Depending on how old the children are they should be able to talk to the judge and say what there wishes are also. You need to do something as soon as possible for the sake of the children! E-mail if you want to talk! Good luck!How do we protect the girls?Personally I would give him the boot. There are other men willing to treat them all soo much better. Not all men are scum and treat their GFs kids like dirt, my mom married a man who took care of four of us that were not his and did not complain once because he loved her, he was nice to us.How do we protect the girls?This is a little confusing, but I gather that some young girls are being emotionally damaged by a guy who has absolutely no blood/legal relationship to them. Get a lawyer NOW and get this a*s out of their lives permanently. If it means they don't get to visit Mom because BF will be there, too, too bad. When the girls are of legal age they can decide whether or not they want to see their Mom and her crappy BF again. This is a situation where somebody has to be strong and defend girls who cannot defend themselves. Get in there, Grandma. And bless you for it!How do we protect the girls?Time to open a can of whip *** . Get your old man and a few of his friends together and visit the little bastard get him in the corner where nobody can see you hold his *** down give him a choke hold till he turns blue tell him if he ever hurts the girls your going to hurt his *** bad . don't worry about the cops you have to many witnesses saying that he is the bad guy and started the hole thing . I know it sounds cruel but its a lot better then the girls getting hurt .Stop it before it starts

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