My Son,
he is 15 now ,wants to stay with his dad for good.
He does not get along with my husband and me ,because we had problemsin the past i was yelling and didn't know how to raise him in a balance way and my husband not his father was not very nice, the older he got the more my SON became angry and told use how mean we where ,when i say i love him he does not believe me and so on .I have changed ,and no matter how much i try, i can`t reach him .
i am very ashamed of it but i cant` change the past now he wants to live with his dad ,who has never been there for him .
I know that i was not the best Mom ,but i tell you this,this is what i knew how i was raised.Of course, now after so many years finally i realized that was wrong i understand now WHAT i`ve done .If he wants to live with his dad it`s OK ,iam OK with that but i don`t want to change custody let him stay for a while than if he want`s to come back i want to be able to have still primary custody .
I want to do what ever it takes for him to be able to come home i owe him that, and if he dosen`t than it`s OK as long as he is happy that will make me happy.
I will be sad i will see the judge in Sep 08 i just want to know would the judge be OK with that or HOW i do you ask the judge .Thank you
I know my foults as a parent ,
to sad i would want it that somebody would if told me befor my son was born i would give anything for that but sadly it took me very long to get it, that my way and my parents way was not good .
i cry , i cry, i cry and as a child growing up i cryed
never,i was close to my mom , my mom never was close to me.
look what my mom did to me that`s how i was to my son now he hates me for a good reasons i fell very bad %26quot;enough %26quot; the cycle has to be broken .....................
EVERY HELP, I THANK YOU ALL
MY SON 15 WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS FATHER? ?Let your son stay with his dad for the summer. OR until December, then reevaluate the situation. Your son may find that the grass is not greener on the other side. Be sure to call him at least twice a week. See him more often than not...that is very important for you guys to rebuild your relationship. If he does go to dad for a while, work on rebuilding your relationship with your son. Always fight for your child, never give up, always give him unconditional love.....Always tell him you love him...quit apologizing and continue to be the best you can be. I don't know about the judge, we still have four long years to wait till my grandson is old enough for the judge to let him choose where he wants to live. sigh......Good Luck MY SON 15 WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS FATHER? ?All you can do is be there for him. Have you asked your son to forgive you? If not you can start there and just love him. Pray for your son and draw close to God. Nothing is impossible for God. I will pray for you. Let me know how things work out.
God Bless
Faith MY SON 15 WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS FATHER? ?I'm sorry i just don't understand how a mom or dad can raise a child the same way they were raise knowing they were unhappy as a child it just doesn't make sense to me. I'm saying this because my mother and father was raise with a very mean and very strict parents and they did the same to me. I swear growing up i would never ever treat my kids like my mom and dad treated me i broke the chain. I showed my son so much love and attention and even though he is 27 we are very close he calls me every day just to talk about nothing that's the way it should be between parents and their kids.
Let your son go with his father if you want any kind of respect from him when he gets older. If you don't he will grow up hating you and i know you don't want that to happen. It's good that you know where you went wrong it's a step forward and every little bit helps you become a better person. MY SON 15 WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS FATHER? ?if ur son wants to live with his dad, then it will be better in the long run to give him the green light. if u choose to not allow the new living arrangement then more than likely ur son will start to resent you.
anyway if ur son wants to leave badly enough all his dad has to do is go to court and the judge will allow the new living arrangement, because at 15 ur son has a say in where he wants to live. unless his dad is so horrible that it would be an egregious act to allow the child to live with his dad.
